Do you find it disturbing for a man to be a single father, or do you think it's just as okay as women choosing to be single mothers?

[Anonymous]

A man became a single father by choice to 5 children. One of them is Alyssa Liu, an Olympic figure skater. And this bitch on Twitter/x said it's disturbing. When women all over the fucking world do it every single day.

She says it's insane that it's legal to intentionally deprive children of their mothers.. Yet women do the exact same thing to men every single day. Never mind the fact that children in single father homes do better statistically than they do in single mother homes. Nearly as well as they do in two parent homes.

See the attached image.

It's not disturbing

It is disturbing

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s not disturbing at all, but most women will disagree.
Women have long held the power to create and destroy families. Nobody likes to relinquish power. So men exercising that ability threatens their power base and their egos. Same reason that the mainstream media has suppressed those statistics about children faring better in single father homes than in single mother homes. We wouldn’t want fathers to get custody more often than they do, even when it’s what is actually better for the children.
The whole of western civilization is gynocentric. Men and children are only as important as women allow them to be. If she wants you dead, you’re dead. If she wants to r*pe and kill kids, she does whatever she wants with near impunity.
Some states have even allowed grown women who r*pe little boys to take their victims to court for child support. Which is to say all states will allow it because the precedent has been set.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-for-child-support

Welcome to your patriarchy!

[Dargil]

Women are responsible for 80% of all divorce filings. It does not men who choose to be single fathers it is women that choose men to be single fathers. And then they restrict visitation and eviscerate men with child support and alimony.

[genericname85]

so not hating on anyone here but actually children growing up with single dads show way less severe symptoms later in life that are typically correlated with single motherhood. like a increased likelyhood for mental illness, increased likelihood for criminal activity and incarceration along other things. it's still OBVIOUSLY better if a kid has both parents but if it hat to choose, social scientifically speaking, it should choose having a single dad.

[Asker]

You are correct. Single father homes do almost as well as two parent homes, significantly better than single mother homes, and WAY better than lesbian homes.

[genericname85]

I wouldn't trust the data on queer parents. That's such a tiny sample size, the research on that is thin. As far as we know having 2 parents is always better than one no matter their sex or sexual preference.

[Pointlesslife82]

Not disturbing. If women can do it, men should be able to do it too. What i find disturbing is the fact that women think it should be criminal to take a mother from her kids, while at the same time cheering women on who take fathers from their children. Hypocrites the lot of them.

[melssvdv]

Take it from someone who was a feminist 10 months ago before my rehab:
Women hate knowing that everything women do, men can do better especially because of the biological truth that men are stronger. It gives them a feeling of defeatism and disappointment because they have been fed by the mainstream media for generations that they are equal to men.

[exitseven]

it is unusual but not disturbing. I suppose if he has enough money and is committed it is okay

[Asker]

Yeah that's like 50k per kid man that's a hell of a lot of money.

[Shy-boy53]

No I don’t , Sometimes they don’t choose to be single fathers, the same as the mothers don’t choose to be single mothers

[NaultD]

Life fucking happens. From car crash or cancer. Shit happens.

[Agape93]

Long as whatever parent isn't abusive, gender doesn't matter really.

[AviatorTom]

It's not disturbing. People do what's necessary, especially when one's children are involved.

[Flower7]

I do not think that women CHOOSING to be single mothers is common. It definitely happens a lot but not deliberately.

[Asker]

Any time a woman who has children chooses to divorce her husband for any other reason than abuse or infidelity (less than 2% of divorces), she's choosing to be a single mother. Considering women initiate 80% of all divorces.

[Flower7]

They are not always married.

[beefcakebradybatson]

It's OK if he's a good dad.