Why do men not seem to chase women anymore in dating?

[Anonymous]

[DonaldDarko]

I figured that if women were saying most men are unattractive or divorcing after a few years. Only useing men for reproductive cells their bodies manufactured. Then, they really didn't like men very much. So, if women don't really want men or need them beyond a sperm bank. Then it was time to just go and make a life and forget about women. I don't know what will happen to these women. If they'll come running back begging men to be with them or just move on. Hopefully the latter because I like things this way. All that old bull shit of chivalry or spending money on basically prostitutes. The hell with that. If that system worked it'd be working right now.

[capriVib]

Because chasing someone is usually a waste of time. In most cases, women are the ones who ultimately decide whether a relationship happens.

From what I've seen in my own life and among people around me, most men who end up in relationships first receive some kind of signal from the woman, maybe she follows him on social media, keeps making eye contact, or shows interest in some other way. Once the man realizes she's interested, he takes the initiative and starts the conversation, even though he knows he could still be rejected. The woman gives him enough encouragement to feel comfortable making that first move, and that's often how the relationship begins.

As for men who see a random woman on the street, become attracted to her, and chase after her, I think many have become more realistic. They no longer want to spend their time pursuing women when the interest is completely one-sided.

[Anonymous]

Because a lot of men are realizing there’s no benefit in it. I don’t blame them. The majority of women find most men unattractive, a lot of them blame men for most of life’s problems. Many of them have told men to leave them alone, they say they don’t need us. They can do things all on their own. Ms. Independent. A lot of men have seen what happened to their dads, brothers, uncles, etc. W today’s dating expectations of a lot of women, crazy. I seen a video where this lady expected pre-date finances as far as getting her nails done, her hair, her make-up all supposedly for him. No fuck that. Now I see why men are going abroad.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing in chasing for a man. If a woman wants a guy today, she makes it known.

You're thinking of a couple generations ago when women chose the man who put forth effort and won a woman's favor. Women simply do not operate that way anymore, and men KNOW that. Women still want men to make a play for them. But they only want it for their own ego. Men know it's a complete waste of time now. She's either interested or she's not. And that's before one word comes out of his mouth. Would you play a game where the outcome was already decided? No!

[FrodoSkywalker007]

They will to jail lol

[Pohjolan]

Because they can take a hint?