Is that intense electric chemistry with someone rare or actually common?

[Anonymous]

Is it rare or common? I mean obviously there is attraction to get with someone, but what about electric intense chemistry, where you feel like when you look at each other no one else is in the room and you both know.. ever felt that? And even years later?

[Anonymous]

It probably is rare, and it certainly is with me. I've only had it with one girl, unexpectedly. It happened multiple times with her. Unfortunately, I can't find out if it still there. It isn't the most important thing, but once you feel it, you desire it. The actual substance of the relationship is the most important thing, but that feeling certainly enhances. I've tried gauging to see if it there with other girls, but it doesn't appear despite similar circumstances.

[EmmaMary]

I wouldn't say it was electric chemistry, it was however the strongest "magnetic" attraction that I/We both felt simultaneously... In total we've been together almost fourteen years and been married for eight years.