Why are some guys such assholes—don’t they have a heart?

[Anonymous]

Don’t they have a heart

[senor_bacon]

Women tend to be attracted to the dark triad- narcissism, psychopathy, machiavellianism.

Researchers commented that in the first 3 weeks to 5 months, it gets mistaken for positive traits, self respect, backbone, setting boundaries, he's not so easy to impress or get his attention, etc.

You need to take the time to filter and test these guys.

I can't get mad when a woman tests me.
Yeah there's a limit, but it's also her obligation.

Female friendships and competition can be catty, brutal, ruthless, and you know how to find women you trust as friends.

There has to be a filter and that's your responsibility.

[senor_bacon]

Just as long as you're not being overtly disrespectful, then you're ok.

Now, many women will say that you need to see he's capable of going through a sincerely angering situation, and he needs to be able to keep his cool, process emotions, self control, etc.

And the most reliable way for you to do this is to do it yourself, but in a public place or whatever girls say.

This is also kind of true.

It's difficult to know where some lines are. But there are many things that any reasonable adult should be able to maintain their cool.

You can put him through those types of things.

[senor_bacon]

TY MHO
Gotta spread the knowledge
This opinion actually brings to mind an interesting question. 🧐

[Anonymous]

Because believe it or not a lot of women love assholes. So when other men see this they start acting like one theirselves. Not all men. But too men aren’t raised like women. Most of us are taught to suppress our emotions. It can also be a turn off for a lot of women because they don’t see him as a man if he cries cause his cat died or he cries for a number of other reasons that give her the ick. There’s also men who were raised by men like that. There’s a lot of reasons.

[Asker]

Can I dm you? Had a question about this

[Opinion Owner]

I usually don’t DM unless I can find you w out giving you my handle name

[Opinion Owner]

Is there a way I can find you

[Asker]

But even if I gave you my handle and you message me I’d know your handle

[Opinion Owner]

No I’m not trying to give my handle to everyone else who reads this. I don’t mind if you know it that’s not an issue. So if you’re willing to give me yours

[Asker]

Okay. It’s Crockacurtain

[Opinion Owner]

I just followed you. Won’t let me message you.

[Asker]

I just messaged you. Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

I responded

[Nikki1989]

For some men, it is hardwired into them. Spend some time on here, and you will come across them every day on here, and they are 90% spineless anonoymous users.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason that some women are such C U Next Tuesday s.

I think you're confusing not having a heart to just having a spine. It takes meeting the WRONG woman to ignite that fire in a guy. And once that fire is lit there is no ever putting it out again.

Spread the word to your sisterhood👍💯😆

[Chayce]

Women respect you less if you give them passes for bullshit. I. e. if she cheats, cries about how it wasn't worth it and asks for forgiveness, she'll think of you less if you take her back.

[Alex-Snow]

There are some jerks out there... ignore them and focus on the good guys.

[Asker]

Can I dm you? Would like to share something. Thanks

[Alex-Snow]

Sure

[Asker]

Messaged

[bear34]

Bad people exist so that we may see better people and appreciate their worth.

[Anonymous]

Some girls are like that too. They seem to just like the attention.

[Anonymous]

For the same reasons women are. Women just manifest their cruelty differently.

[Asker]

Can I dm you? I had a question

[Opinion Owner]

No need for DM, just ask your question right here.

[Abbycado]

That’s like asking some cowards go anon. 🙄

[MasterKS]

No because they have assholes. lol