Am I being rejected because of my weight?

[Anonymous]

Not obese but overweight.

I'm not even sure it completely shows as I wear loose clothing.

Despite having a pretty face I don't have guys swooning over me. Plus I've never been outright rejected but sometimes I think I am being soft rejected (key word think not sure if that's what's actually happening).

I wonder is it the weight

[Anonymous]

Of you could give a celebrity w whose body you seem to be the shape of, who would it be? I have to ask the hard questions here to give the best possible answer. When you say having a pretty face, who exactly is saying you have a pretty face? Yourself or others? Do you have curves in the right places? Because there are some women who are considered overweight but it’s in their curvy ass or maybe big tits w thick thighs. But not in the fit, or having bar wings. It could be that some men may like you but are embarrassed to be w you. So they may be willing to sleep w you but not scene w you. Plus you’re older so a lot of men are probably going for younger women who aren’t overweight. It would be better if there was a pic.

[Anonymous]

Men connect based on overall energy, body language, approachability, and mutual chemistry rather than a single physical trait.

Closed-off posture or nervous energy can make you look unapproachable

While comfortable, very baggy clothes can hide your natural shape and signal that you want privacy.

Sometimes you are simply around people who are not a good match for you.

People pull away for many unseen reasons like personal stress, being busy, or just not feeling a spark. If guys do not know your weight under your clothes, they are reacting to your presence, eye contact, or conversation style.

A pretty face helps, but confidence and warmth drive real romantic interest.

Good luck

[Anonymous]

There is never one reason. Some guys like chubby girls. But if you think it is bad, do something about it.

[BadApple69]

Keep in mind there are a lot of guys that like girls with a little extra meat on their bones.
I personally would reject you if you have a bad personality. Weight isn’t a factor, BUT for me to date you you need a good sense of humor, can Carry a conversation or at least be able to participate in one.

[Anonymous]

It's possible, but there are a lot of other factors. I've had a "glow up" from what I used to be in school. I get significantly more attention than I used to. If anything, my success has gone down. I've started to assume there must be something wrong with me, but I can't quite put my finger on it.

[Asker]

Can I message you I have a question

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, but I don't know how to do that as an anonymous posters.

[Asker]

Can you message me if I give you my handle?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure.

[Asker]

Crockacurtain is my username

[Mpodere]

Some extra pound Is not a big trouble... Maybe the fact Is that you are insicure about your body shape and it could be an obstacle for a guys

Maybe they see you as insecure, but they don't know why you are.

[Chayce]

if you don't feel confident you also won't appear confident. If your weight is something you feel insecure about put in the effort to change it. Good looking people get preferential treatment next to the wealthy.

[Nikki1989]

Unlikely.

[Staximus]

Loose clothing makes you look bigger