Is your guy "a princess"?

[DishLady]

I was chatting with someone who was talking about how all some guys want today is to sit back while women chase and cater to them... like a princess.

I thought he was joking, but the more he talked about it the more I understood what he was saying. Bc of the supposed role reversal between men and women... with many women who insist on taking the lead... a guy gets used to sitting back and being pursued, being spoiled, etc.

So now I'm putting the question out to the lions to tear it apart, lol.

Girls, is your guy a princess?
Guys, are you a pretty, pretty princess who needs (and fully expects) to be chased?

[Finchie40]

I do like girls’ that chase me , but I wouldn’t expect her to cater to me at all times , i am into old school traditional relationships that her and I work as a team together , and we cater to each other with giving and receiving , not one sided. So if a girl is with a guy that you described , that girl really needs to open her eyes and reconsider that relationship big time , because she is being used and taken for granted if that’s the case , unless she truly likes treating her man like he is a princess. Me personally thinks that relationship won’t last long. If he expects her to always cater to him. Because there will come a time that she realizes she is with a user not a lover, the only time i like a girl to cater to me is in the bedroom because I do like submissive girls’ but I also like to cater to her in the bedroom as well but outside the bedroom , I don’t expect her to cater to me , I expect the both of us to work together as a team , handling responsibilities together , having each others’ backs when one of us falls , knowing we are always there for each other. I hate when I see a couple or meet a couple where one of them is completely controlled by thee other , I think to myself , Wake the fuck up , nobody should be controlled by their partner whatsoever, but unfortunately there are a lot of couples that are like that. That isn’t love , that is abuse , being told what you can and can not do , being told what you can and can not wear , and eat, etc, I just find it completely pathetic

[SixFootSexy]

It is is funny because I think everyone wants entitled, "princess treatment."

A woman told me she was a princess recently and I laughed in her face. She said, "You don't believe me?"

I told her, "Not unless you can prove it through family ancestry. When you do we'll marry you off for an alliance." Disney princesses aren't it.

[DishLady]

Well, to an extent it's nice to feel wanted and pursued by a person of interest. HOWEVER the "princess" reference here is for a guy or gal who just expects everyone to chase them down and grant them whatever they want 24/7, including constant absolution for anything they happen to do.

[SixFootSexy]

Yeah, that's a bit too much. But so many women have unrealistic expectations, I guess men can too.

[DishLady]

Indeed.

[Kvass]

Never dealt with them before. Glad we don't have princess boys in the eastern bloc

[DishLady]

Hahaha. That’s their hub….

[Abbycado]

lol not in the least

[spartan55]

I don't know which planet all of these women are chasing men... exact opposite here.

[DishLady]

A lot of "city slicker" types are really like this. I've seen it. Women just chase them.

[spartan55]

Sounds like a bunch of Marys to me

[DishLady]

Some are, but sometimes even experienced gals are sucked into this sort of dynamic where they just catert o the guy and let him be a princess.

[spartan55]

I couldn't look myself in the mirror.

[exitseven]

My wife says that thy do not make guys like me anymore.

[DishLady]

Indeed they don't.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am 100% a traditional guy. I'll do the chasing, as long as she isn't TOO fast!

[Xdressertiff]

I'd love to be someone's princess. I wish a girl would take the lead in a relationship

[DishLady]

REALLY?

[Xdressertiff]

Yes most definitely

[blshbnz]

Yeahhh I’m top