How obvious do I need to be for a guy to know I like him?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, this is just an ask for in general since I hear guys don't know when girls like them. I feel like with my personality it's easy to tell I like a guy cause I either just stare at them all the time orrrrrr am extremely shy despite my extroverted behavior.

I want a husband eventually so if I like a guy and have to make a move, I'm just wondering how much it takes for a guy to finally realize I like them? With and without me saying it.

[OneViewpoint]

You don't need to take all the risk but you need to take some of the risk. Staring at a guy from 30 feet away isn't much of a risk. And take it from a guy, getting rejected may sting a little but it's better than wasting your life. If you're looking for random guys to respond to your "secret signals" you're gonna be wasting a lot of time. Just walk up to a guy and say, "You seem to be in a good mood tonight, what's your name, I'm Sue".

[Anonymous]

Extremely sometimes, but that might not be enough. When I like a girl and believe the feeling is mutual, I overthink everything. I don't think it is possible for me to do anything, and I probably need her to take the lead.

[Anonymous]

They can so be oblivious that sometimes you literally just have to tell them directly to their face.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

This obvious

[MysticDevice]

You'll have to explicitly tell him directly and use those exact words.

[K_I_ngD_I_ck]

Guys like direct communication. Just tell him you like him. If he is anywhere near hesitant then don't try again.

[dudeinohio]

Some guys dont have a clue

[astlavista]

Pretty obvious—most guys miss subtle hints.

[doren680]

No not really sure but then