How can I stay confident and act like myself around attractive girls?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Confidence isn’t necessarily something you perform/portray, it just comes naturally, you either have it or you don’t. If you consider yourself a confident guy in general then you won’t have to think about whether or not you’re “acting” that way just because the woman is attractive, if that makes sense. If this is more about keeping your cool around women, I’d say to just treat her like a friend or someone you already know. It takes away some of the pressure you may feel in your head to be performative.

[Nikki1989]

Stop posting anonymously; that would be a start.

[laert]

Don't try be attractive because firs rules of attractive not going think about that, just be yourself and love yourself everything will be okay buddy