Why do some men lash out with insults when they get rejected?

[Kelley1]

Especially online, or when a man can reply with a written comment, if a man approaches and you don't accept him, or if you tell him you are not attracted to him, he is going to criticize you and/or call you names.

Why are men so sensitive to being turned down?

[Laws-Of-Existence]

I would assume it happens because of shock. Things suddenly happening differently than anticipated. If it only happens with one woman then he simply gets attached too quickly. If it happens with every woman then his self esteem is too high and he needs to actively reduce it by admitting "i am a piece of shit" and that'll stop the expectation to be served by everyone. ㅤ

[slatyb]

A sense of entitlement. They think they were somehow promised a woman of their choosing and feel cheated when they lean that they can't have it.

[Taranis_Thunor]

This is coming from a crossdresser.

[slatyb]

@Taranis_Thunor LOL. Sure, and you are a space alien with an Oedipus complex.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@slatyb That's not as embarrassing as being a crossdresser though 🫵😂

[slatyb]

@Taranis_Thunor Love the picture. It's pretty obvious why you aren't getting any. Bye.

[HollyK21]

I feel like it’s a lack of emotional maturity, along with poor emotional regulation skills.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Something women suck at even more then men but we men just need to BE better, I remember.

[HollyK21]

@taranis_thunor thanks for perfectly demonstrating that exact lack of emotional regulation and maturity right here under my comment. It’s ironic to claim any superiority in those areas while struggling with basic grammar. It’s than, not then.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Ah yes intelligence is decided by your grammar you learnt at school and if you're dyslexic then oh gosh, you must be retarded because you can't spell as well as HollyK21 can.
... Or maybe we measure intelligence by your ability to solve problems & rationalise whilst acknowledging nobody is perfect.
You're demonstrating a lack of maturity if you're picking on grammar and not my argument.

I've never seen women expected to regulate their emotions, yet we men have to do it all the time to even have a place in society.

[HollyK21]

LOL, It’s bold to lecture anyone on “rationalization” right after throwing a literal tantrum & using a slur just because your grammar was corrected. Thanks for continuing to prove my exact point about poor emotional regulation. Anyway, we’re done here — enjoy talking to yourself.

[rgb008]

low self esteem and poor self control

[TonyMetal___1986]

They don't understand that they don't have the right keys to a woman's heart 😁

[rgb008]

@TonyMetal___1986 a true tragedy

[Kelley1]

@TonyMetal___1986 That is a very good answer.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@TonyMetal___1986 Violence and rape are usually their secret kink. You'd know all about that being from Lebanon.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor well i'm not a mind reader, might be for some 😄

[Taranis_Thunor]

@TonyMetal___1986 by the way what happened to Lebanon is a South-African style tragedy and it's now also happening to my country, England.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor it happens because we have extremist people with hostile ideology following a country that isn't their country...

It's a combination of politics and ideology...

What's happening in England is different, these immigrants aren't your own people, you have welcomed them there out of sympathy and just doing the right thing, but in life you have to learn that some people can never be welcomed, because they act like a deer but beneath this deer costume there's a ferocious wolf, they just turn against you!

It's happening in Spain, Germany, Sweden.. etc

[Taranis_Thunor]

@TonyMetal___1986 This is gonna require a lot of contextual brackets to explain. I have to correct you in the idea that it was because we're too kind. We didn't welcome them in, were never asked and never voted for it infact one of the biggest motivating factors for our votes for decades has been anti immigration, yet our Fabian Society politicians (a Marxist cult whose logo used to be a literal Sheep in wolf's clothing) & Conservatives (commonly part of the Grand Lodge of England, a "Libertine" Freemasonic group who our current King became the leader of before he was even King) have frequently decolonised our Empire (despite the lies we were actually extremely fair, banned slavery globally, brought our developments to new people's [as we saw it as the white man's burden], didn't force religious adherence & our astrologists helped many to rediscover their past) even Churchill was responsible for being part of this process all whilst putting up a fake "patriotic tough guy" act.
The collapse of British civilisation wasn't the degeneration of our people, it came from the top down and the reason they want immigrants who outbred Christian Lebanon & want the same for us is because they're part of some Biblical apocalyptic Semitic supremacist belief system (for the Zionist Conservatives) or an anti-white spiteful & jealous coalition of Communists who hate patriarchy, nations, structure and civilisation in general.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor might be true, people around the world never had the choice or vote for what's happening in their countries, the call is always for the leaders but who brought these leaders, it's the people, so in a way or another, the citizens has something to do with what's happening in their countries, unless the country was occupied and some people were forced to choose against their free will...

[blueonblack22]

Out of control ego. And it’s bs.

I confess I did this once or twice in my life when I was much younger. But I immediately apologized afterwards and moved on. Again these were very isolated incidents.

But I’ve had women say and do far worse when I rejected them. Not all but a sizeable percentage. The top insult was “you’re gay”.

Women have fragile egos about this too. In fact in many cases more fragile then men’s. Society looks at it much more like “tragedy” when a woman rejects a man then vice versa.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Who's in the wrong depends on how you rejected him. If you yourself were rude expect the name calling. If you're nice about it and he's insulting you then maybe you should question why your own family aren't enough to intimidate a man out of doing this to a respectable woman?

[TonyMetal___1986]

I don't know, i don't approach girls, so i haven't experienced such things, in contrary i'm someone who spent his life getting approached by girls and they put a lot of pressure on me, don't want to hurt their feelings and yet they didn't understand that i'm not interested, after multiple tries they turn furious on me and some of them had blocked me out of the blue 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Taranis_Thunor]

Yeah when these foids suddenly block men over slight annoyances, thats their version of the name calling. Though an arguably more cowardly form of it and they know they can just spread their legs for someone else next week.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor if she's a cheap h*e than yes she'll act like this...

[Taranis_Thunor]

@TonyMetal___1986 Then 90% of women are cheap hoes according to you which I'm not even sure I disagree with. Women don't go by as long as we men do without having sex unless you're some kinda 6'8'' 8pack gigachad or some trickster Loki-like type (why do women like the latter so much? 🤢)

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor because of feminazis and because the world lacks of real men, a man leads and a woman follows for a reason, when step out or act like a desperate simp and handover the power to women who aren't created for this position in the first place, then that's what happpens!

It's a mixture of things that poor decisions that led women to become like this...

STILL there are some very nice women out there but they are rare to find...

[Taranis_Thunor]

The good women are absolute gems 💎
Women should understand their role isn't only fit for stupid & weak women as having something to care for (children, husband) makes you stronger then being stuck in an office wage slaving.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Taranis_Thunor agreed 👍🏻

[Sevenpointfive]

when women say goodbye they usually don't give a reason. not knowing pisses people off. just be honest. don't make it a one decided decision because you don't want to change someone.

[NathanDavis]

I guess they feel entitled to anything just because "they approached"

[In_Trance]

Rejection is part of the game. People lash out because they're shitty players

[Cidknee]

Thats how they deal with pain. I scream, yell, and cuss when, for instance I stump my toe.

[shish_kebab]

Now that you've solved that deep mystery can you help me with something?

Why is water always so wet? 😜

[AgentG111]

They are still children and don't realize it's all a competition they need to keep fighting for what they want.

[Paige2006]

Because they have no class

[msc545]

Because being rejected doesn't feel good.

[lovesickgirlie]

It’s a shitty coping mechanism