Was I right to block him after he chose someone else but still wanted me?

[Lululoli]

... loves me still but he met someone else and he's going to marry her in secret 😂 😂 but he wants me back because he loves me and I'm the prettiest one etc. and he can technically have 4 since he's Muslim.

I told him I wish him the best and blocked him. Did I do right by blocking him?

[SueShe]

Yes, you were totally right to block him and to get him out of your life. Unless you agree with that religious idiosyncrasy of having multiple wives, you should never have been in a relationship with such a person.

You were not loved for whom you are but for your body and if he is getting married but still wants to be with you, then only because he sees you as a rebound, a substitute for fornicating but nothing more.

Forget about this loser and concentrate on your future with someone that will not just (mis) use you for his sole physical pleasure.

[Genie23]

This is the second question I've seen about commited guys. Girl, you know it's a waste of time to give a chance to/wait for someone who is committed or about to commit. You should invest time in getting to know guys who are single and available instead. You did absolutely right thing by blocking him. Don't unblock him.

[Lululoli]

Girl 😭😭 This one I met when he was "single" 😂 but at one point I noticed a change so I left him and went on with my life. He came back and told me what he did and also mentioned the other girl 😭 😂 He showed me a screenshot of a date alleging he talked to her after I left him but I know it's a lie 😂. Anyway, I agree with you, he's staying blocked.

[Genie23]

Ah! So, he didn't care to put efforts, went on to date someone else when you left, and then came back... told you a lie expecting you to give him a chance? He sounds like one of those people who wants to eat the cake and have it as well. Probably even like the chase. Glad you blocked him. You're so pretty. You could get a guy who is 10x times better than him. Keep ignoring/blocking people like him. Take care.

[Genie23]

Thank you for MHO!

[Lululoli]

🩷🫶🏻

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea you did, there's always a guy willing to go the extra mile for you out there but you won't ever find that if you are stuck in hesitation on weither you should cut burned ties that simply waste your time.

[Lululoli]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[Danny_dan92]

You’re setting yourself up for disappointment for meddling with a guy who clearly isn’t serious about you

[Lululoli]

Is it meddling? 😆 I met him first but then I left and he ran off to her. I had him blocked everywhere but he got a new number and that's what he had to tell me. I blocked him again and I don't plan on unblocking him. I figured I never really cared for this one to begin with or else I wouldn't have blocked him the first time... I was fine too the entire time then he randomly shows up again.

[Danny_dan92]

Yes young lady. Lol Let me ask you something, what drives you to put this much thought into the guy if you say you want nothing to do with him and blocked him?

[Danny_dan92]

Secondly why do you think he would still be reaching out to you if he’s marrying someone else?

[Lululoli]

You're right :) I need to leave all of that in the past.

[Danny_dan92]

Glad you see what you need to do for your own good 👍🏼

[Lululoli]

🩷🫶🏻🩷🫶🏻🩷🫶🏻🩷🫶🏻🩷🫶🏻🩷🫶🏻

[Danny_dan92]

😘❤️

[Danny_dan92]

Thanks for the MHO

[Lululoli]

Thanks for your input 🌸🌸

[Danny_dan92]

Anytime!!

[DryGermanGuy]

You did wrong by "wishing him the best". 💀💀💀

[Lululoli]

How 😂

[DryGermanGuy]

The guy is obviously some medieval savage.

[Lululoli]

Ehhh I meant it. No negative feelings from my side.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes you did do the right thing clearly he's marrying the woman he wants. Don't fall for it he doesn't love you he just wants to keep having sex wit I you. Its not like that for men we can love two women we love one and are infatuated with the other

[Lululoli]

I agree. He sent me a screenshot trying to say he didn't reach out to her until after I left him but I don't believe it. Something always felt off with him. Luckily I have not nor will I ever sleep with him. As for the girl, good luck to her I guess. I even told him he looked ridiculous trying to beg me to go back with him while he has a girlfriend he's supposed to marry.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I commend you. Your smart and you didn't fall for the bullshit. I'm proud of you

[Nikki1989]

Yup. Move on. Men are a dime-a-dozen. Another one will appear before you know it.

[capriVib]

You should have asked yourself that question how are we supposed to know if you even liked the guy. Maybe you just didn't like him and blocked him anyway, pointless question.

[Anonymous]

You don't need a reason to "block" someone.

"All is fair in love and war"

[Lululoli]

How so

[Opinion Owner]

There's no set rules for blocking. You should be able to block anyone for any reason, according to your emotions. And your emotions is another thing that you don't need permission to feel or not feel.

[LiamS95]

If you feel like you did the right thing that's all that matters.

[AngryCarl3]

Dude has done his homework on polygyny, gotta respect that.

[paytime]

No. If you wished him the best and blocked him then you didn't mean it. Thats disturbing.

[bowenw]

You were absolutely right to block him.

[lilBigPotato]

Nope, well done. Just move on.

[lilBigPotato]

I meant yes.

[832loverboy73]

D**N SKIPPY !!!