What's the difference between the way a "shy guy" acts around a girl he likes, and the way a "shy guy" (or any guy in general) acts around a girl he DOESN'T like?
Would a guy act shy/nervous/unsure around a girl that he DOESN'T like so that he doesn't give her the wrong impression or lead her on?
I'm just wondering if some guys delliberately act shy/reserved/awkward around girls that they don't have crushes on, because they are nervous or anxious about giving her the wrong idea. Or would it depend on whether or not the girl likes him? Just curious!
Would a guy act shy/nervous/unsure around a girl that he DOESN'T like so that he doesn't give her the wrong impression or lead her on?
I'm just wondering if some guys delliberately act shy/reserved/awkward around girls that they don't have crushes on, because they are nervous or anxious about giving her the wrong idea. Or would it depend on whether or not the girl likes him? Just curious!
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I agree with lolabear. A shy guy will probably be more outgoing and friendly to someone he doesn't like. I'm shy and when I'm around a girl I like I tend to talk a lot less. Its usually because I don't want to say or do something stupid.
How long does it take for you to finally get comfortable around her enough so that you CAN be easy-going and yourself with her?
Shy guys can't be "shy" around the girl they like forever! lol* Does it depend on how much time you spend with her? How nice and open she is? How attractive she is? What is it?
Also, what if a guy acts shy around a girl SOMETIMES, but OTHER times he'll be more outgoing and fun around her? What gives? Is it because the girl seems more open to him that day?
There is no set time limit for a guy to open up....sorry! Here are a few things that may play a role:
1. How you are acting towards him that particular time.
2. His mood or how he feels about himself
3. The environment you are in
4. Alcohol level
There are probably more, but I can't think of any at the moment
a shuy guy would most likely be MORE nervous around someon he likes. but its probably not on purpose. if he doesn't liek the girl, he may be a bit more confident because he's not trying to impress her.
Hmmm, interesting! What if the guy acts shy SOME of the time, but at other times he can act more himself? The majority of the time he's kind of shy (he's kinda shy overall though), but other times he's less shy. I can't explain it! What's up with THAT?
That probably means he's starting to get a bit more comfortable, but he still has some reservations. either about what he WANTS, or about how you'll REACT to what he wants (example: he may be insecure about liking you. or he may not know how exactly to act around you, but he's starting to gain some footing and confidence.)
what if the guy talks less to most of the girls... then which is the best possible way to say find out whether he likes you or not... he doesnot seem to openup... doesnot seems to talk to you.