The vibe.
It's "the feeling" you get.
I can tell when a girl is just shy a mile away, you see that she stammers & blushes especially when you compliment her, but she might also smile, and as long as you don't say anything lame and keep everything straight & to the point - you will get the date!
Unapproachable girls is the whole different thing. They might not be shy. They may show strong confidence. She's the Miss Independent. Or she's just withdrawn, giving mysterious vibe, or looking slightly mean.
You just feel there's something wrong about her when you're being near, and decide rather not to approach her but to give a chance to that pretty chick on the other side who seems way more approachable, whether or not she's shy.
What are you talking about? Do you mean unapproachable as in bad manners? Because to me that is the only thing that differentiates an approachable from unapproachable girl. If you're trying to say that being self-conscious would make you rude enough to be unapproachable, then I don't think I could tell the difference when I first meet you and I don't know you at all. But if you have manners I don't think even if you're self conscious a guy would mind.
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As an introverted guy I feel like I can definitely tell the difference between the two. I'd say the difference is in the body language. A shy girl who wants to be approached and talked to, but is too shy, does tend to show more signs of being open. Eye contact may not be consistent or for long periods at a time, but it's there. I think what would make me not want to approach a shy looking girl is if she was linked arm in arm with another girl all night, or literally no eye contact at all.
Shy girls tend to have a nice sweet look about them, whilst unapproachable girls look like their sh*t smells like roses. I tend to find the difference between the 2 quiet easy. Both are difficult to crack but a shy girl would be much more polite if she was rejecting and an unapproachable girl would just be rude.
Well shy people don't give off much about themselves so it's usually hard to discern between the two types, if there is in fact any difference at all.
No, of course not.
Older and more confident guys will just try and find out how she responds, younger and less confident guys won't.
well if she gives me a cold look that tells me she doesn't want to be approached...
My idea of an unapproachable girl,shy or not is a girl who always clings to her bff and never leaves her side no matter what. That doesn't give me an opportunity to approach her to get to know her closer.
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