Is it good to be called a player?

[Anonymous]

This girl I'm really close friends with knows me to good. We hang out a lot, eat lunch together, we trust each other, we buy each other things, and so on. I do find my friend attractive but I don't know why she called me "PLAYER" a couple times in a conversation when I mention different girls in it(This only happened ones). She knows I'm not like all those guys that are players and plays around with girls. I'm talking about guys that cheat on girls and play with girls emotions, I'm not like that. I'm a chill, nice, relax person. I like to help people and they always come to me for help, I'm very social to everyone even with girls, and overall I'm a friendly guy and she knows it. I'm not gonna lie I do talk to different girls and I think she knows since I'm very social. Why she say that to me? Does she find me attractive? Does she like me? Is she is jealous? I don't know.

[Linnie1l0ve]

No, that's not a good thing and if she called you a player I guarantee she doesn't want to go out with you, her calling you a player doesn't mean squat about whether she finds you attractive or not. the fact that she called you a player simply because you just speak to a lot of girls might mean she -might- be jealous or she just doesn't know what a player really is.

but point is no, being a player is not a good thing and if known by the girls in your area it could limit the chances of you actually having a serious girlfriend

[EnchantingAthena]

No, being called a player is never a good thing. Maybe she sees that whilst helping people, they somehow become dependent on you and she takes this as a sign that they may like you as more than just an adviser. I've watched a friend of mine do the exact same thing, unconsciously attracting the opposite gender.

Then again, it's very possible that she is jealous and that she doesn't like the attention you give to other woman. Not enough background to tell for sure.

[Stilover]

NO! that's not a good thing. Girls don't really want to be with guys who are players, and if you say your not then you must be giving off that vibe. In my eyes, a player is a guy where one girl isn't enough for them, they feel the need to seek out many others even if they have the perfect girl right in front of them.

[Phoenix1991]

Bro I think you just been labeled with something that is "Frowned down upon" by other females. Womanizers/Players are guys who flirt/talk/hook up with multiple females. You and I are the same but I'm weird , She sounds a little jealous and maybe slightly interested in you. Its too early to say.

[Anonymous]

Clearly someone never listened to Big Pun.. You're not a player, you just crush a lot.

[Phoenix1991]

Words to live by ^

[Opinion Owner]

It's funny that chicks attempt to change the player too

[Phoenix1991]

wishful thinking.

[Opinion Owner]

Play on player

[Phoenix1991]

You too lol

[Anonymous]

it is not. players aren't wanted by anyone who has a sense of standards