He's ignoring me and I don't know why!!!

[amberry]

So I was pretty close with this guy...and we talked on the phone for hours and everything. That went on for around a month. We weren't a "thing" or anything like that though. We were just friends, I guess. I mean, I wanted to be more than just friends but I didn't tell him because he had this whole thing going on with his breakup with his ex and he wasn't really ready for a relationship. (according to him.) Anyways, he's ignoring me now... He's not calling. He's not answering my texts. He's never online. Of course...he MAY be busy, but I doubt it because even if he is busy, he always answers texts within about 2 hrs. The last text he sent to me was emotionless and about if we had to go somewhere. (this was like...3 days ago.) So now, I'm just ignoring him back, cause I don't know what else I should do.. I mean, he'll talk to me if/when he wants to, right? What do you guys think is up and what do you think I should do about it?

[MOZZY10]

I would advise to dump the scum bag, You were there for him when he was down in self-esteem and this is how he repays you that "exploiter".

But you are playing it wisely by ignoring him back, It should be the man who is eager for a girl, not vice - versa, All girls should take note of this,

But If you really want him, then you would know best how to get him back,

Remember what you are worth though . . . and Girl, you don't come cheap.

[amberry]

Haha, your answer made me laugh. (: But what do you mean by "If you really want him, then you would know best how to get him back?"

[MOZZY10]

The entire reason you want your him back is because he rejected you. It's human nature to want what we cannot have. Especially if we had that something and it was suddenly taken away from us.

If you really have feelings for him, he probably feels the same way about you.

1. Consider why he broke up with you in the first place ( You may have done nothing wrong )

2. Be the person he liked in the first place. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you

3. Do not let him know you miss him! It lets him believe he has the upper hand when really neither of you do it should be equal!

[amberry]

Well...we weren't "together" in the first place. Nor was he attracted to me in that way. I think. To me, we were just friends, and I think it was like that for him too. And if I ignore him to prove that I don't miss him, what if he just leaves thinking that he doesn't/didn't mean that much to me?

[MOZZY10]

Sorry for the late reply, If he is aware that you are trying to contact him, then he must know that he means something to you, otherwise you wouldn't bother trying. He's ignoring you simply because he's not man enough to face you, he doesn't know what to say for treating this way, especially as you've done nothing wrong.

He probably regrets making you feel this way, don't be surprised if he has returned to his ex., believe me it's not that easy to treat a girl the way he's treating you unless there's a very good reason, if you want further help feel free or just contact my email

[amberry]

He doesn't know that I'm trying to contact him, I think. (cause I'm basically ignoring him now.) And if he regrets making me feel this way, why is he still making me feel like this? You guys are so confusing... (no offense.) :) And I don't think he's returned to his ex cause his parents were against him dating her. (that's the reason they broke up.)

[MOZZY10]

If you haven't called him, I would suggest you do & yes, don't lash out at him. Just keep it light & breezy. Send him a text one day, ask him if he needs time (one week) to clear his head, just to say that I am here for him. you are hurting yourself by worrying for him, but your definitely on his mind so don't worry.

You seem like a nice girl, Remember at first you were getting to know him. You still don't know his real nature. For him to treat you this way shows his true colors. In the end you have nothing to lose goergous

[amberry]

Okay, thanks! I'll try and then I'll tell you guys how it all goes down. :P

[davidb1]

If a guy wants to talk to a girl then he will respond quickly to any texts so if he isn't responding to your texts or phone calls than he probably just doesn't want to talk to you anymore or is annoyed with you for some reason.

[amberry]

I kind of already guessed that he doesn't want to talk to me/is annoyed with me, so my question is why would a guy just randomly not want to talk to a girl? If it's that he's annoyed with me..I don't know what I did to annoy him.

[davidb1]

It can be the slightest things that change how a guy thinks of a girl, sometimes there isn't even a reason. He probably just suddenly stopped being turned on by you for no reason.

[amberry]

So...am I just supposed to forget him or something?

[davidb1]

yea just ignore him

[Nana_4]

Ugh, I have the same problem. Guys, guys, guys, they are so confusing. :/

[amberry]

I KNOW, RIGHT? -__- sighhhh.

[Nana_4]

Yes :/

[Flusher]

We are shy :(

[Nana_4]

I know, I hate being shy. I wish I could just tell him. :/