We have been together for a month. since last week he has been acting really weird and shady. He wouldn't text me back a lot and when he would the convo would be cut really short because like I said he eventually stopped texting. Last wed I had enough and sent him a 5 page text and was like...whats the problem...what did I do wrong. you not responding is you telling me you don't want to be with me anymore...later he responded that no nothing was wrong and sorry it took so long to respond. he never said anything after that. then the next day after texting him twice and calling he finally text me and I asked him was he gonna see me over the weekend. He said he was gonna try. we chatted a bit then after that I haven't heard from him since. I call...text. nothing. then on sun I sent him a text saying basically just answer this...are we still together? he didn't respond. All the while he has been getting on facebook. So yesterday I sent him 2 messages on fb and said please tell me what's going on. I was worried. didn't understand why he was doing this. If he was done then just say so, so I could leave him alone and that I won't stop until he does. he didn't respond to that either but he has accepted 2 friend request since. Something not good is going on I'm not that blind. but I'm still confused. yesterday I called and it would ring a bunch then go to a busy signal. I know I'm not blocked because it doesn't do that for blocked numbers and I'm pretty sure its not ignored because it would always go busy after 50 sec. if he was ignoring me it wouldn't take that long to hit ignore...epecially since I called back to back. it would only take like 5. so that made me think something is wrong with his phone. but I'm not convinced of that anymore because of the fb thing. I'm not gonna contact him anymore. he has made himself clear whatever is going on. I don't wanna lose anymore self respect. I feel I maybe should give him space. But what bothers me most and what I truly need answered is this
say he is ignoring me rather than everyday recieve like 3-10 text from me and 3 phone calls...why not just respond and say I'm done? he is going through too much trouble to ignore me when iv given him so many chances to end things and told him I won't stop until he answers. so when I asked are we done. why not just take 2 seconds and say yes so I can leave you be. so this kinda makes me feel like maybe he's not done completely...just wants space. because honestly who does that. me personally would just say yes so they can leave me the hell alone. Iv convered each and every possible senario for how he has been acting this past week, one being he out at sea and didn't tell me (hes in the navy) so therefore no service...but then how does that explain the fb thing. so basiclly I have evidence to promote yes he is done and no he is not. but how do you think I should handle this? I feel I should leave him alone but should I stay open minded to the fact that he's not 100
say he is ignoring me rather than everyday recieve like 3-10 text from me and 3 phone calls...why not just respond and say I'm done? he is going through too much trouble to ignore me when iv given him so many chances to end things and told him I won't stop until he answers. so when I asked are we done. why not just take 2 seconds and say yes so I can leave you be. so this kinda makes me feel like maybe he's not done completely...just wants space. because honestly who does that. me personally would just say yes so they can leave me the hell alone. Iv convered each and every possible senario for how he has been acting this past week, one being he out at sea and didn't tell me (hes in the navy) so therefore no service...but then how does that explain the fb thing. so basiclly I have evidence to promote yes he is done and no he is not. but how do you think I should handle this? I feel I should leave him alone but should I stay open minded to the fact that he's not 100
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