If a guy pats a girl on the upper back while saying thank you for something what does it mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

sorry I'm not used to be being touched by guys so when I do I have to think about it and wonder if it signifies something, by the way I do have a crush on him and he does flirt with me sometimes but I can't tell if its friendly flirting or real...

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Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 55%

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Well, when I pat a girl on the upper back, it just means I acknowledge her as a mate/friend. But from my view, it's impossible for a boy to be just friend with a girl,lol

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- Asker
  
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  i have the same views as you lol I always end up falling for them
  
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- jason311
  
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  lol, that would make life so much easier.
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

+1 y

He's saying thanks.

Have you never seen a guy around his mates? They do that all the time. Stop reading so much into every little thing or you'll never get anywhere.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

+1 y

he probably at least thinks you are cute

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