He stares at me a lot but has never talked to me. does he like me?

[chandler]

There is this one guy that I only see every other weekend. he stares a lot. I stare at him a lot too but that's just because he stares at me. he's never talked to me before. and I'm starting to like him. but I don't know if he likes me. one time I saw him and he stared at me from an angle. it was kind of weird. but I really want to know if he likes me.does he?

[Anonymous]

I don't so agree with martyfellow all the way on what he said about "A really shy guy would stop staring once he knew you noticed." Because I'm a really shy guy, and I had a girl looking at me too, but I still couldn't get the courage to go talk to her, and so I still look at her once and a while. It was just like impossible to me to only go on looks to know if she likes me or not before approaching her. I don't know what it was. I think her being pretty attractive intimidated me from approaching her, and the situation being too had a lot to do with it. She's always by her best friend in class, that's also very attractive and surrounded by people, can't really sit by her or I would be in someones seat! So I was just scared to approach her cause I was scared of what other people would think if I got rejected or what ever. I think if your really interested in the guy, I think you should maybe smile the next time you see him look at you, see what happens. If he smiles back, you know for sure that he likes you, I wish that one girl I was looking at would of done that, rather then having me wondering if she likes me or not. I used to always tell my friends, I gotta know for sure if she likes me or not before I approach her, and that's by her looking at me, well that still doesn't seem like enough, now if she smiled, that would definitely tell me for sure. But in your case, I think he likes you, and if you like him too, I think you should at least smile at him.

[Abby24]

Dude, you gave a really good advice. Friend me 'cause I need some advice.

[martyfellow]

Well, he might like you, but if he stared until you returned his glance and he still doesn't approach you he's not just shy, he's weird and I woud hesitate to get involved with him.

A really shy guy would stop staring once he knew you noticed, so it isn't that!

[Anonymous]

That happened to me in one of my classes. There was this really cute guy and we would always catch the other one staring. Finally we ended up sitting next to each other and he is really nice and we've become really good friends. This is one of those things were you just have to wait and see what happens or go up to him and ask him because if you don't talk to him you'll never know

[pielcanela21]

i have this same problem except he a senior I only c him @ lunch. the thing is he always surrounded by girls dey say he a player but idk. once my friends dared me 2 go up to him and I never turn a dare down so I was walking 2 him nd as I was going to say hi or sumthin a friend of his(yea a girl) came up to him nd I chickend out. I wana know why da heck guys do dat?

[aurasprw]

Probably. He's probably just shy and can't work up the courage to talk to you.

[selectivethought]

Absolutely, I'd place my confidence in it. Grab life by the horns. :-]

[Anonymous]

Same situation , totally drives me crazy i don’t know what to do.
Sometimes we both stare on each other but he never really talks to me