He keeps staring, does he like me?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy in two of my classes at college and he is always staring at me! We sit at opposite end of the classroom, him slightly in front of me and I find him looking over his shoulder at me. When I see him staring, he keeps my gaze for a second or two then looks away. I've seen him staring lots of other times too and I do think he likes me.

However, I'm not really very pretty and kinda on the 'large' side, well a US size 10/UK size 14. Do guys even like girls like me? I mean I'm 'fat' so I don't think he would have any interest me. Plus I find it weird that any guy would give me attention in the first place.

I've never spoken to him and don't intend to because I don't like him (I don't think so anyway) but I want him to stop staring too because it's becoming slightly frustrating to find him staring all the time. What should I do?

[thumbelinasplace01]

Why would that be weird that a guy would give you attention. Just because you consider yourself big doesn't mean no guy will ever like you. There are a lot of guys out there that like bigger woman, and some don't care about weight or looks. Don't sell yourself short.

[crazymedic]

I completely agree.. also when you catch him staring at you..just casually ask "what?" or "what's up?" like politely..and see his reaction.

[Asker]

It's weird for me because I've only ever had one boyfriend and I was slimmer then. He broke up with me when I became larger. I've never received attention from guys since then so it feels a little strange and out of the ordinary, that's all. Thanks for your advice.

[csgeek]

Guys like girls of all sizes. Talk to him. You'll figure out why he's staring soon enough, or he'll stop staring after you talk to him.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks. I'll try saying hi or something.