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Do women say the opposite of what they actually mean? (Page 2)
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when I do it, I think of it as a test. I tell them to call me
just to see if they really are into me.
most women do. you have to go with the flow. Eventually women will start being more blunt as to what they want,feel,need,and what they think they deserve in life.Patience is key to a successful relationship.
I personally don't as I have been raised by guys all my life. So when I need to say something or get something off my chest, I am pretty up front.
Yes they do especially when they are angry or playing hard to get
I say the opposite of what I mean to see if a guy cares enough.
What does that accomplish exactly? besides letting him know that your full of sh*t some of the time? cus that's how id feel.
Even if I bothered to explain the answer you just wouldn't understand. There's a hell of a lot that guys just do not get about girls and this is one of them.
Give me an example of something you would say the opposite too. I'm pretty sure I can figure out what you are getting at.
I can barely think of an example..
Things as simple as me and a guy I like (or something) are hanging out and his friend calls him and asks him to meet them in lets say.. an hour, and asks if I mind I'd be like 'sure, it's fine I'll just see you tomorrow..' when I really want to say 'no stay with me :(' lol
That is the most annoying thing. if you want him to know something TELL HIM
Well actually melissa you stupid slut I completly understand that, it actually p*sses me off how women say "you wouldn't understand"
not all guys are retarded... there are rational thinkers who can step out of the situation and look at the bigger picture, its obvious that is what a girl would say, and it is obvious she would think the exact opposite.
Thats so dumb, this might work on the needy guy, the guy you have total control over, but I'm telling you that that sh*t is going to p*ss any normal guy off, and any form of affection towards you is going to go out the window as soon as you start playing bullsh*t games and not owning up to what your doing.
I DO NOT GET IT. & I AM A GIRL.
If you like him Enough to see how he cares, then how is that different then telling him to CALL you cause you LIKE him. & IF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM - LRAVE HIM A LONE. W**??
Tho, I can't say I understand the question either.
Why would a girl test a guy she did not want to call her, & if she WANTS him to call her- I is NOT a test.
Guys think with logic, girls think with emotions
The problem with doing that is that when a guy notices this, he will say something along the lines of, are you sure? I don't want to leave you hanging. and then the girl will be like, yeah its totally fine, go hang out with your friends, and even if the guy knows you are doing this to test him, he will stay say, alright and in an hour he will leave to chill with his friends, then the next day the girl is going to be upset, and cause some drama whether she realizes it or not.
Thats just what guys do, however, me personally, If I am hanging out with a girl I like, I will tell my friends straight up I'm with a girl. and most guys I know will do the same. But if it is just a guy you like and you guys are friends, and even worse if he doesn't know you like him, then he is going to leave you for his buddies. Knowing this, if you want to play that little stunt, which is idiotic to begin with, make sure its to a guy you are either talking to or dating.
Melissa, I feel sorry for you, you are obviously a controlling, manipulator who doesn't understand how to deal with her own emotions. You are likely to end up alone or settling for some guy you don't want: you'll wake up in your late 30's and realized that all the good guys left because of this BS. No self respecting man would put up with that crap. The problem these days is that too many females act like you. Ever wonder why guys have trouble approaching girls? it's because of idiots like you
I usually say what I mean. Then again I don't speak for every woman.
I really think this can vary from person to person because I know people on both sides.
Call her. But not right away or she'll think your desperate
so in other words if a girl says she's hungry, that means she's stuffed? LOL
It depends on the woman. Some say what they mean, others don't. It's that simple.
Scientifically speaking, humans are much more complicated than we make them out to be. You can't just try to simplify it like that
Girls are normally pretty honest and she might be nervous to answer so just wait.
The problem is more they don't even know what they mean themselves.
Depends on the guy they are dating also depends on the mentality of the person
neither answer is right.. yes they do test but its not about what they said to you, its how you respond ..
btw, don't "not pick up to not seem desperate".. your screwing up your chances if you continue playing games like that . just be honest and keep everything in the open and clear
Sometimeswe do other times not we will give you signs
why would i want to read signs when people can talk, would rather cut my wang off that read signs
YES, they never say what they mean. Especially when they're PMSing!
yeah in fact they do.I have a major crush on you and I hope you live a long and happy life...
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Sorry couldn't help being sarcastic. >.>
Forger sarcasm font, I think we need a SINCERITY font on the internet for those rare times people aren't being sarcastic.
Ask her out say that you didn't get her message if she asks.
theyll say no... but thats the oppisite yes they do
It really depends on what kind of personality the girl has like if she's lets loose and has a lot of fun no they will not but a shy girl might,"say don't call me' but she wants to talk to you alone with no one around
Personally I would say girls tell the truth but not with words... you have to read their body language... that always tells the truth.
^this
that's it I'm gay
This is why rapists exist :D
someone needs to print a book on womens body language with pictures and saying so we know haha But that's BS just open your mouth and speak the truth yeah how hard can it be !!!
Not always because that would mean that every women hates me secretly^^
woman give thier number to anyone bit quite often change thier mind
It depends. If she says she's fine she really isn't fine. If she says i love you she means it.
if the girl really like the guy, she say no that mean yes, or, it means what they say. i am a new one, maybe , a lot of mistakes in my sentence. i hope someone can help me. thanks!
yes . I agree with what you said .sometimes the girls saying the opposite of what they actually mean.it doesn't mean that she didn't love you . they just want to satisfied their needing .
Yes, women do test their men, saying the opposite of what they actually mean
If I said that I would want him to call. I don't test people on stupid crap like that.
most women don't know what they want so yes they do say things for no reason
I think she wants to get chased, but do not let her play you. Show her you're not that easy to get either.
Sometimes they just want your number to know that it's you calling. So they can act accordingly to the situation.
Wonen do not alwaysctell u what they really mean they hardly ever do
sometimes, but you really never know with females. theyre emotional
The thing is, maybe that's because they don't UNDERSTAND, so they overreact and act out
@The thing is, maybe that's because they don't UNDERSTAND, so they overreact and act out
what does that even mean, and how does that connect to the question. what is there not to understand about giving or not giving a number. if you lie you know you lie. its not a matter of understanding. and i dont see where acting out enters into it.
anon it is not true you never know. if a person is honest she knows. if she is lying she knows. if you are the recipient of either you will know if you deal honestly. it is not hard for anyone to know if a person is dishonest if they themselves are honest.
So pretty much...
You failed the test.
Hahaa.
its depends , for me im a straight forward kind of girl and im very blunt also...
i like how guys say they do say the opposite, most guys. and most girls so they dont.
Girls say opposite when they are not able to decide whether you will say yes or no.
nt really, actually women ain't straight and they can do the undoing
after you get the number wait 2-3 days. no more or less.
kick women in their vaginas cause they are very painful at kick with leg
In that case,I think she mean to call him for sure.That is a test of a credit.
well if she asked you to call her and you did but then she never answered then I don't think she really meant it because if she did she would have answered
hope this helps :)
wellll...hummmm do you hang with her she's probably board
oh ffs *bored
i guess it depends on the woman
My mom does it all the time and I act the opposite of what I tell myself I'll do. Thumbs down (I mean thumbs up 😉)
Of course. We use reverse cycology a lot.
Cycology? Is that the process of thinking whilst riding a bike?
Loooooooooooooooool!! almost fell off my chair
Lol woah, what?
I hear its quite common
Good be a challenge... keep up the good work!
No more than a man does
Changes between woman so too difficult to depict
Yes sometimes when they are try to ignore someone.
Yessssssssss. Totally
girls. lie. sorry.
If that's true then you aren't a woman.
Not all is girls or lady's lie okay some of us were taught to tell the truth
Everyone lies whether it be silly white lies or full on lies, we all do.
we all lie to get what we want in life !!
60% of the time, they do this everytime
Ä°t is unnecessary
i say what i mean.
lol and hows it all going for you now?
Ehh, not good, haha
Why do people play these stupid games.
childish and so annoying. When you figure it out PLEASE let me know.
run away dude. dont put your dick in her trust me.
depends on what she says