Why is it so hard for women to admit they like douche bags?

[Anonymous]

Guys how many times have you heard women say, they don't like douche bags? But a week later their dating the douche bag? Or how about those that say money doesn't matter but a week a later there their are dating the rich guy. I mean seriously do they really think we're that stupid?

[soa88]

Douchebags know they are douchbags, I like how honest they are about being a douchebag. It is attractive to know what they are, and how they feel. Would I rather have a lying nice guy than a honest douchebag? I am going to pick the honest douchebag every time. Can I change him? Hell No, Is he an a**hole? Yes

Women do like douchebags, I will not deny it coming from my own gender, I have seen it plenty of times. Personally, in my opinion--They get old quick. Many Intelligent Women spot them early.

Nothing better than a man honest about his own character, his likes, his dislikes, and how he solves his problems. Maybe he is a d*** in the way he goes about dealing with people and to get what he likes--but Women are stupid to try and change that because Douchebags act a certain way to get something out of people. They are manipulative, they are witty, and overall, they are insensitive. However, Douchebags have a weakness: They are predictable because they will never put others before themselves--unless it gets them laid.

An Honest Douchebag Is not going to waste my time. He knows he is a douchebag, I know he is a douche.

A Lying Nice Guy WILL waste my time.

Simple as That. No Matter what Women say-they do like Douches

Why?

Confidence-confident they will get you in bed, by downplaying your ability to get him there. He makes it a game, or a challenge.

They Ignore You Even when you try to make him to pay attention--They Crave Attention.

He Knows When and How he is acting like a Douche--he changes his morals, his behavior, and his ethics to give his little man downstairs some attention. *And it WILL be little considering he has to compensate his lack in understanding and relating to women for a douche personality*

These are the only questions Douches have in their head going out: Should I insult her intelligence tonight to get her to challenge me? Should I only pay for myself when we go out to dinner after the bar? Should I ignore her half the night, then flirt with her the rest of the night? Will this get me laid?

Anything that can be compromised in order for them to get laid-WILL be, Underestimating their ability to do so is Women's first mistake. Down to Earth Women will realize this as well as Intelligent women-Hence not wasting time.

Women have the responsibility of understanding why men act this way because 90% of the time, There is a reason he is saying the things he is saying, There is a reason why he is doing the things he is doing.

He is willing to compromise his personality, his perception of himself, and his morals to get a good lay for one night: Who am I to judge? But I am not going to be that stupid girl lying next to him.

Does not tell me everything about himself, but enough to know, He is not for me.

[Asker]

I'm not gonna sit here and read all this, to know I'm screwed and will never get a GF, because I'm to nice.

[soa88]

Let Me ask you this: Would you be attracted to a Women who asked you to change, or would you be attracted to a woman who liked you for "you"?

Being too nice IS a downfall, You gotta stand up and say something to shallow women. Your questioning what you will and and will not stand for. Douches give the vibe of confidence, You get that vibe down, Your set, my man! Good Luck!

[Asker]

Just forget it.

[soa88]

I am trying to help you out, Brother! I am sorry--you need to find a nice girl, those are hard to find.

Women like Men who Know who they are and what they stand for, Douchebags find the characteristics women find attractive in men: confidence, sense of self, and aggresiveness and use it to their advantage.

[Asker]

Yeah because they all want the jerks.

[soa88]

Women do not know what they want, and even if we did, the probability of finding it, is very slim. Jerks and douchebag understand that if you sell yourself well enough, they will bite. We do not want jerks, We want Men. Jerks have the aggressive qualities of men, they give the vibe that any women who does not want them, are stupid. You have to sell yourself, if your insecure with yourself, it will never happen.

[Asker]

Whatever.

[soa88]

You are already insecure of yourself because your questioning how your niceness affects women. Women are stupid, I am gonna tell you that right now. We go after the wrong guys, honestly. Who the hell cares what women think? Be yourself and f*** girls. Being Kind to people is NEVER a bad thing.

There is more to life than being what someone wants you to be, especially women. You gotta be cool with yourself, you have to be secure in who you are.

[Asker]

Nothing ever seems to work, I think I was cursed to be ugly and single.

[soa88]

Never think that being nice is bad. Niceness does NOT sell, but that does not mean that it is bad. Your absolutely right though, Women do like douche bags. You need to get creative, you have to convince yourself that your worth, and you must face that "rejection" will happen. Women are shallow, trust me, You do not want to be with a woman that needs convincing that nice guys are a good thing.

[Asker]

Your too damn confusing.

[soa88]

Niceness does not = getting Laid

Being a Douche =Getting laid.

Conclusion: Changing yourself, changing your morals, and relating to the typical douche bag is not good.

Women = Status to Douchebags

Women = People to Nice Guys.

Douchebags see women as numbers, Nice guys see women as People with feelings and dreams

Objectify women like douchebags =Getting Laid.

What do you believe in?

[Asker]

So I should be a douche bag? And why should I change myself to prove to a girl I'm worth dating or worth her time? That's so damn shallow its not even funny. I would never ask a girl to change herself. I get it your into the douche bags, don't know why you couldn't just give a straight up answer instead of all this bs.

[soa88]

No-If you read my answer, I said they are predictable and they get old quick. I like a Man who is confident in who he is, If he is confident in being a douche or not-its attractive because he is confident.

But NO I do not like them. why would I like someone who makes me feel like crap?

Women like confidence-Plain and simple-Douche bags have confidence, hence why they get laid.

[Asker]

Fair enough. I guess I have to befriend a douche bag then.

[soa88]

Your Not understanding what I am saying. Its Simple. Douche bags get laid because they are confident regardless of anything. Regardless of treating women with disrespect, being selfish human beings, and acting like jerks, They convince themselves that its right to be like that and it gets them laid, why would they change? But I suggest if you do NOT want to change, you change your attitude about it. Your attitude about it is way more important. Be optimistic, Always!

[Moloch]

She's right.

[EmpressK]

There are a number of reasons why girls like douchebags and rich guys, thought they vary from girl to girl. But here are the top reasons.

1. They want to change them. Whether or not these girls want to admit it, it's really in our nature. We want to know that we were the ones that turned his life around. Sadly, this almost never happens.

2. Douchebags tend to be more fun and adventurous. From experience I can say that being with them gives you that extra thrill, and who doesn't like thrill?

3. Money does matter. How much it matters depends on the maturity of the girl.

4. This is just what some/most girls are attracted to. Since the beginning of time we've chased after the strong, confident, macho man (who usually turns out to be a douchebag).

What you need to do is to stop chasing after the girls that want douchebags and look for girls that want to be with someone like yourself (I'm assuming you aren't a douchebag).

[Asker]

No I'm not why do you think, I had asked this question? I'm nice and shy hence the reason why I'm single. FYI all women want douche bags, some just pretend they don't.

[EmpressK]

Having been there and done that, I can assure you there will be no more douchebags for me. Some women just learn slower than others. So I suppose I need to correct you there, since I suppose you include me in this 'all women' group.

Also, shy usually suggests lack of confidence... Girls like confidence.

[Asker]

But what good will confidence do me, if I'm shy and can't change that.

[EmpressK]

Ok well then since you can't change that, sit there and be shy and watch all the girls you like go for the confident douchebags.

You know what confidence will do for you? Make you more attractive.

[Asker]

So I'm f***ed and will die alone.

[EmpressK]

You need to change your attitude. Until then no-one can help you.

To be honest, I could have been attracted to you initially, but your whiny, pessimistic attitude is off-putting.

I suggest you change that attitude.

[Asker]

Nope changing me attitude won't solve my problems.

[EmpressK]

Lol. Keep doing what you've been doing. See how far it gets you.

[Asker]

I've been the confident jerk nothing, I've now the nice guy nothing. Its my looks.

[EmpressK]

Whyy not be the 'confident, nice guy'? Like, wtf!

Btw what do you look like?

[Asker]

that doesn't work. I'll send you a pic.

[MoeMoe]

Your reasons: 1. D-Bags will never change and if you want to try to change "him" then you should expect yourselves to change to our likings and don't get all p*ssy when we want to change you.

2. Douchebags tend to be more fun! BS Complete BS. You ladies that like them can keep telling yourselves they are more fun but reality is they are so boring! They are the most BORING guys, they like to do the same things over and over, they aren't creative...

[MoeMoe]

#2 contd: they would rather take your a** to fast food like McDonalds and consider that a date. They have other girlfriends they are sleeping with and your not just the "girlfriend".

#3 Yes money does matter but only to a POINT. It should never be the main priority.

#4 Contrary to so many women's beliefs those Douchebags are the least confident type men. Why do you think they are Douchebags?Douchebags are Douchebags cause they are so unconfident. Most Douchebags could give a s*it about you.

[MoeMoe]

So many women think of "confidence" as this whole black and white picture that like if your a D-Bag then he must have all this "confidence" which actually women confuse D-Bag confidence with Ego. The so called "nice" guys can have just as much a D-Bagness usually without the a**hole part. Straight up D-Bags are usually complete A**holes and could care less about you. They would gladly let a door hit you in the face, never open a door for a lady.

[lmea78]

I honestly don't like douche bags...I hate that and money is always important because we all need it... don't be so angry! you'll find a nice girl!

[Asker]

Yeah maybe in my dreams. Just because I may want a ''Nice Girl'' doesn't mean they want me.

[lmea78]

You have to be positive about girls, then nothing good will happen to you!...

[Asker]

I am positive about girls, its them who are not positive around me.

[lmea78]

So take your time then and wait for the right girl, she will come to your life for sure.

[Asker]

That's the problem here, I don't want to keep on waiting. I'm almost 27 and never had a real GF, when I am I gonna get one? When I'm 90 and on my death bed?

[lmea78]

I don't have the right answer for you maybe but I'm almost 34 and haven't found it yet either, I worry about it a lot but and I can guess how you feel, but is not good to be complaining, sometimes things don't happen for a good reason, and the good reason can be a big surprise...don't give up! :)

[Asker]

I'll try not too.

[FlaggLives]

That's like asking why do guys go for the super hot girls who stick their noses up in the air and act like useless snobs with no talent for anything in life. It's just stereotypical mumbo-jumbo. Not every girl goes for a douchebag, and the ones that do are just vapid idiots and you wouldn't want to date them anyways.

[doobey1234]

You need to stop watching movies and looking at stupid stuff. Cause honestly its not true, nor are all guys horrible and all girls want you to spend money on them.

[Asker]

Not saying it was true, just saying the majority of women lie about who they, actually like.

[Vermi]

Why do some guys whine so much on this site? Like...holy sh*t.

[Asker]

Maybe Its because I'm right. Looking at your avatar I can tell your into douche bags.

[Vermi]

No, actually you sound like a typical broken guy whose looking to vent. Did you every once think that you might be the problem? Maybe you're the one going after women who aren't attracted to you. Naturally, you get rejected and assume she's going to end up with an a**hole because she doesn't want you.

I have yet to date a douche bag because all my exes are nerdy students.

[Asker]

But I'm right though, and your right about one thing women do reject me, and are always dating the jerks. But if you saw what I looked like, you'll see why I'm like this. Don't worry the day will come when you will date a douche bag.

[Vermi]

You must like dating women that are attracted to jerks, what does that say about your personality? Maybe their into a "jerk" for some shallow reason and you're equally shallow for being into the women.

For the record, I won't date a jerk because I don't have the patience to deal with their bullsh*t. So don't worry, while you're sitting in your room bitter about life and being envious of douche bags, I'll be laughing.

[Asker]

I'm not a mind reader so how the f*** I'm I suppose to know, what women likes and doesn't like douche bags? And I highly doubt you don't have the ''PATIENCE'' but you would if he was super hot.

[Asker]

Damn your dense.

[may04]

Vermi- your last comment made me laugh. I like you. Expect a friend request nnnooooowww!

[stillagoodgirl]

Its not I'll admit it 'I like douche bags!' I think its because they're exciting

[johari]

Its noti might not really like them but I'm attracted to them because I guess I want to change him

[rivflo89]

Haha I don't mark off types too soon. I'm friends with benefits with a douche bag that has money but no I'm not gonna ever wanna date him. Good time but yikes

[Asker]

Let me guess, he's super hot too. Because if he wasn't you wouldn't be sleeping with him.

[rivflo89]

Haha now let's be realistic. You're overrating my judgement lol funny

[Asker]

But I'm right, if the guys not hot he ain't getting a date.

[rivflo89]

Haha its funny because its stupid

[Asker]

what's stupid?

[rivflo89]

That you're attempting to make me feel shallow haha. Reread my comment

[Asker]

because you are shallow.

[rivflo89]

Lol no babe I'm not but you won't believe me because your a mess.

[NewClassic]

We don't know they're like that at first