Why do girls like douche bags?

[davet1244]

why is it that all the pretty girls seem to date douche bags ?

and I know what confidence is, but most of these guys are just plain douchebags..

[LonelyStoner]

Its time for the other side of the argument.

Davet,
Id like to start off by saying that i feel your pane. Ever since preschool i could never really seem to get many friends, let alone a girlfriend. No matter how kind and decent i am, to anyone, it alwayse seems to make people think they can just walk all over me. Im in highschool now and though i developed coping skills to deal with the lonelyness, it hasent gotten any better. People constantly try to use me for their own amusement, And when i start standing up for myself i get treated like IM the asshole.

But judging from how you responded to these women, valid points or not, i think your misjudging yourself. They gave you constructed unbias critsizm based off of your answer, and you dicided to get butthurt about their conclusions. You can try and convince yourself that your the nice guy all day long, just dont try to convince evryone else. It tarnishes the image of people who ACTUALLY treat people with dignity

[sp33d]

My sister is dating some retard who doesn't know his head from his ass. I talked to this guy and.. nothing special. Another one of those jocks who go to the gym pumping steroids and build muscle to "get chicks".

Bottom line is, women like confidence, if you have none, you get none.

Douchebags have little confidence, mind you - girls date them, because they have their own issues - they will eventually grow out of it, some sooner, some later and some girls will always stay girls, that's just how it is. Don't try to find a deeper meaning in it than that.

My advice to you: don't lose your cool. The only thing you should be worried about is being too agreeable. Women step on guys like that, literally. Otherwise, be yourself, have a personality and you will have confidence and that's all you need.

[kalg8]

"pretty girls seem to date douche bags ? "

This is so ironic to me. Maybe the douchebags are hotter? because clearly you are only concerned about the "pretty" girls, so maybe looks are what matter to them as well as you.

As a side note- I met my boyfriend through volunteering. Definitely not a douchebag. and if you asked those pretty girls, they probably wouldn't say their guys were dbags either. Maybe you just don't actually know them, or know them in a different circumstance than the girls do.

[davet1244]

no they are douche bags lol

[midnight223]

First of all,only girls that are pretty go for douchebags? I'm sure there are plenty of gorgeous women that don't.

And it does have to do with confidence, a lot of 'nice guys' (not all.) don't approach women for whatever reason (shyness, intimidation, etc.) and the 'douchebags' will. From a girls point of view either the 'nice guys' aren't interested or they just don't want to make the first move(lets be honest, not a lot of women make the first move) and settle for the 'douchebags'.

[davet1244]

not true, even if a nice guy approached some girls they would still go for the douche

[midnight223]

Thats just life, not every girl saids yes, and I'm probably sure the 'douchebag' got rejected a few times too.

[Brittny69]

Pretty girls usually don't have as high of a self esteem as it seems they do. I date guys who are mean to me because its easier than being the one hurting the person ya know? Rather get hurt than hurt I don't know that's my opinion but when a guy treats us badly or acts like he doesn't want us we want him more

[JohnGPL]

I hope you at least realize how crazy that sounds.

[Brittny69]

hahaha I do and I hate myself for liking guys like that but my last ex kinda made me feel like that's all I deserve

[WarezMyGF]

Because the nice guys are pussies. That is not attractive to most women. To us guys, it's like a chick with a mustache.

Also, that is a huge generalization. I know many beautiful women with really sweet and more often lately with real nerdy guys.

[ToxicPudziKatt]

I've dated a couple of douches alright. But I've learned from my mistakes. Obviously wouldn't date a guy I found attractive, but if he treated me well, and we got on and had fun together, without being Enrique Iglesias, sure why not. (:

[yogababee]

you're right, it has a lot to do with confidence. Most girls like to date the "bad boy" as a rebellion. It's something fun, new, adventurous. Plus the nice guys rarely hit on girls as often, or make moves.

[davet1244]

bullsh*t, I see nice guys try all the time

and fun new adventurous ? yeah its really fun when your crying your ass of about how he cheated on you lol

[yogababee]

okay, well I think that all girls are different and if you are thinking of a girl in particular, she may not be overall attracted to you. However, most girls look for more than the "douchebag" quality...

[Lucky1227]

The douchy ones are hot.. I would rather date a hot guy than an ugly guy

[Anonymous]

Because the girl is also a douchebag so their personalities are similar and they get along great.

[ASjun]

One word, confidence.