Why do girls prefer a wanker?

[funnyfucker]

so like I've noticed if your a nice guy who can sometimes offer a girl love but not all the time because you know you want your own time t and can be nice, sweet , funny and even flirty and be able to tease her, yet she will still go for my mates that are the jerks. so like I've come to this conclusion that girls are f***ed in the head because like I guess the sweet respectful guy isn't good enough even if they look like they are having a great time with me its like your a good mate. which isn't bad if you just wanna be mates, but to girls you actually like its like thanks for nothing. oh yeah go and f*** my mate instead. then the ones that do wanna get with me after gotta learn I don't do sloppy seconds after my mates have been there. I could be a complete wanker and get laid mostly every night, but that's not me so I would feel like no sense of achievement or feeling because she would have gone with me for being fake and not genuine. I guess I die alone. oh and fools, jerks and wankers don't die alone anymore because the worlds changing. the sweet, nice, genuine die alone and miserable because they are gonna be left wondering what was wrong with me. its f***s me off even more though because I'm kinda shy so when I see a girl I like I suck it in and make an effort to no avail. my good mate who is a respectful guy but gets the girls always says one day dude, but I ain't getting any younger. I'm the only virgin in my group as well. heck I know a slut and I'm the only guy she said she would never f*** or go out with. although I don't care because like I said I don't do sloppy seconds and she's got teh sh*test personality

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I've also been told by a fair few girls I'm hot or cute, but they still don't wanna do anything with me. I'm 17 and maybe I should just be a wanker, but I know for me a relation wouldn't be worth it because it wouldn't mean a thing to me if I was

[spider_munkeeh]

Ummm, you sound pretty p*ssed tbh :/... Some girls just like that kinda guy, and I agree, those girls are kinda f***ed up. But yeh I know how you feel and stuff with the "i'm the only virgin in my group", my mate was in that situation and he got so p*ssed off he had sex with some weird fat chick who he had only known for like 2 days. and he regretted it like hell after as he met a nice girl who he thought he could have a relationship with but she broke up with him because she thought he was an idiot for loosing his virginity like that.

So yeh, there is no need to rush stuff like that, you will get there eventually. You said yourself that girls have told you that you are hot. So just chill for a bit, get your mates to set you up with a girl they think is more your type.

Seriously, not all girls are stupid, some girls actually like nice guys :)

[funnyfucker]

Ok thanks yeh my bestie would but he doesn't hang with teh old group anymore so he doesn't know many girls now as he just came outa a relationship and my other mates are selfish they would just line me up with teh easiest girl who would probs be some fat chick who wnats to bang around so nah. I need new friends because I wanna go out and meet new people but I'm shy but I can get over myself on that after a few drinks lol. because I'm 17 teh only girls I ever get to ask for are randoms. so you don't get to noem