What does it mean when a guy says "we don't have chemistry"?

[Anonymous]

We were friends, we kissed, we fooled around, and yet he says we have no chemistry. What do guys consider "chemistry".

[Konnour]

It means that... there is no chemistry. No magic.

Chemistry doesn't only mean getting hard (or in your case wet), it's something more - it's a feeling you've known that person forever, a feeling that time stops and it doesn't matter whether you're both bungee-jumping or just taking a walk - you enjoy it for 100%

He doesn't feel that to you, chemistry is rare. I find many girls very attractive, but I've felt chemistry only with very few of them.

Some people think that it's all crap and just a polite way how to reject someone, as it's so rare, but I gotta tell you it's a real thing and those who have tasted it always gonna crave to have the same feeling again - but not everyone can provide it.

[aMuse]

Basically he doesn't feel into you. You might be physically attractive to him but that's it... He doesn't see anything in the future with you... Having chemistry is being on the same level. Conversation flows smooth, you're comfortable around the other person without trying, you have a lot in common, you make each other laugh, sex is good, etc.

[Stacyzee]

Those are all physical things, which anyone can do.

Chemistry - means a deeper emotional connection. One in which you don't have.

What you explained above is physical attraction. It has nothing to do with touching bases on a mental level.

[relationshipDNA]

It's a softer way of saying, he's not "sexually" attracted to you. Guys are pretty simple. Either they want to sleep with you or they don't. He's being a gentlemen by saying there's no "chemistry". Most guys just stop calling.

[Konnour]

I don't wanna sound rude but that's bullsh*t.

[relationshipDNA]

@Konnour Well, that was rude...and it would have been more productive to give your point of view than tell me that my opinion is bulls*it. Douche much?

[Anonymous]

Like there is nothing more he feels there could be sexual chemirsty or emotional but either ways if he feels that it's something you both are lacking there..then it's better that he told you now.

[guy532]

you two just didn't click...I consider "clicking" when two people can talk for hours about the dumbest things and have a great time doing it.

[martyfellow]

He means you have a lot in common in terms of yur lifestyles...or, in this case, you DON"T have much in common...

[PntBlnk]

He probably feels the girl is way more into it than he is, and it's turning him off.

[Diamonddogz74]

It just didn't click for him. There's no other way to put it.

Or maybe he's gay.

[heyyy]

Means he is just not that into you.