My husband won't let me sleep

[Anonymous]

I have to work really at night so I sleep during the day. Well my husband (of 8 months) has horrible habit of being very loud and getting drunk with his annoying friends at our house. When I tell him to keep it down (nicely), he tells me I'm being a drama queen or I'm ruining his party.But he makes be quiet when he gets a hungover or he'll be mad at me. If I don't enough sleep I turn into a complete b!tch and start snapping at everyone. Any idea cause I'm getting really fed up.

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My hubby had another party and it kept me up.So I yell at him keep it down and he told me I was being a drama queen. I ended up throwing out his friends.Then the next day he had a hangover and wanted to be quiet.Well I sneak into the bedroom with...

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a water gun and spray it in his face. I wish you could have seen his reaction it was classic.

[Anonymous]

This is a situation in which you have every right to turn into a complete bitch. What your husband is doing is inconsiderate as well as disrespectful. I hope you don't go back into the room after he tells you that you're being a drama queen when he is interrupting your sleep. Don't let him get away with that. Sometimes you have to "set it off" lol. Next time he does that, kick his friends out of YOUR house and tell him not to treat you like you're inconviencing people when they are interrupting YOUR sleep! You have rights too and if your husband can't respect it that's when you need to go off.

[palek]

Sorry to say it, but I'm afraid you're going to have to deliver an ultimatum to your husband: "Choose either the bottle, or me". As a recovered alcoholic myself, I can smell this affectation in others from a considerable distance. Do not put yourself in the position of condoning his behavior, or enabling him to continue on. Things will only get progressively worse. You may have to enlist the aid of his parents, your family, and any clergy you may be involved with. Go to your favorite search-engine and look up "codependency". Also reasearch alcoholism this way. All the best.

[Binary_Illusion]

Kick his friends out of YOUR house! You have the right to sleep, and if all his friends can do is get drunk, and be obnoxious, they can go to one of their houses, or to the bar. And I would be noisy when he has a hang over. Be annoying, make him feel what it feels like to get no sleep at all.

And I think everyone becomes bitchy when they get no sleep. I know I do. Haha, the littlest things will piss me off, and then your going to hear a long speech, or be yelled at.

So seriously, kick them out. You NEED your sleep.