My husband doesn’t want to work, he says he does but his actions show different, we’ve been together for almost 7 years married for almost 1, I have been the breadwinner our entire relationship, and have always pushed him to get a job because 2 incomes are better than one , however, every time it’s time to get a job he starts changing (for example)
today- I had to schedule an on boarding for a temp agency , and the guy asked me when my husband was going to apply because I asked him previously about him applying, so I said well he has time to talk now for an interview and the guy says great and says he’s gonna transfer us, before I could get done saying okay my husband says “I’m eating” he had a little tiny piece of hot pocket left to eat, and I was like? This is the third time I have basically sat a job in your lap and you always have some type of excuse on why your too busy for it, then he tells the lady on the phone that none of the jobs she’s naming he’s interested in, and I told him I would work any job to keep a roof over my families head (we have 2 children ages 3 & 1)
and after the phone call he had a sour attitude and still has it hours later. Am I wrong for being ready to throw the towel in , I’m ready for divorce because I feel like he contributes to us struggling as opposed to trying to help pay things and he knows we’re struggling but yet would ask if I can buy games and give him money , knowing we need it for bills. And I’m sick of it
today- I had to schedule an on boarding for a temp agency , and the guy asked me when my husband was going to apply because I asked him previously about him applying, so I said well he has time to talk now for an interview and the guy says great and says he’s gonna transfer us, before I could get done saying okay my husband says “I’m eating” he had a little tiny piece of hot pocket left to eat, and I was like? This is the third time I have basically sat a job in your lap and you always have some type of excuse on why your too busy for it, then he tells the lady on the phone that none of the jobs she’s naming he’s interested in, and I told him I would work any job to keep a roof over my families head (we have 2 children ages 3 & 1)
and after the phone call he had a sour attitude and still has it hours later. Am I wrong for being ready to throw the towel in , I’m ready for divorce because I feel like he contributes to us struggling as opposed to trying to help pay things and he knows we’re struggling but yet would ask if I can buy games and give him money , knowing we need it for bills. And I’m sick of it
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