My husband won't let me work what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He says you are a woman, stay at home. Telling me to wander or go shopping. but i want to work, what should i do

[caring__1]

This is what happens when people don't fully discuss all key issues before they get married. They're often shocked by the reality they face.

You can help him see how his self-esteem grows from him facing challenges at work and gaining a sense of accomplishment. Without those challenges, a person's self-esteem drops and insecurities grow. I'm sure he doesn't want you to expect him to constantly reinforce your self-worth. How would he feel if you were constantly telling him to tell you how wonderful you are?

You want to know if he's doing this because he needs to prove he can fully provide for a wife and family or if he fears you meeting someone who has more to offer and take you away. To address this issue, it is important to understand what is behind his decision.

[Gent207]

Offer to grab a job at a temp agency?

Check out PeopleReady they have tons of options for various paid odd jobs through their app called JobStack. It's free and easy after you create an account just pick a job, go to work and get paid that same day.

[Anonymous]

Well you could start spending his money at a much faster rate, forcing him to reconsider his stance lol. He will probably tell you to get a job at that point and he’ll even think it was his own idea 😉

[EmmaMary]

Just why the bloody hell did you marry him in the first place?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[OlderAndWiser]

That shoul have all been settled BEFORE you got married! Why wasn't it discussed then?

[Guy13]

What’s wrong with enjoying life…there’s no pressures. Volunteer Charity etc 🤷🏻‍♂️

[hyperben]

fuck him off to the 50's where his attitude belongs...

[AviatorTom]

Go get a job and work. Your husband does not have the right to control your every move.

[Anonymous]

Divorce him if it bothers you that much. It’s your right to work if you want. Can you guys afford to live on just his income?

[Anonymous]

Why are you taking orders from your husband?

[Kasabiian]

Get a work-from-home job, problem solved.

[Mgtow1990]

Just do it women rule the world

[Waldoe]

leave him...