My husband doesn’t let me work from home. he says I effect his me time but I don’t I’m in a different room! what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Ps: I’m 25 years old pregnant and feel more comfortable at home my work allows me to do so

[Finchie40]

Tell him to Go F Himself , I hate to break it to you, but that honestly sounds like he is being up to no good ,, if he doesn’t want his pregnant wife home with him , that’s a red flag that you shouldn’t overlook whatsoever , if he loved and cared about you , he would be happy you were safe at home with him , so the fact that he isn’t? Is pretty messed up shit that you should put your foot down to , people that need space from their partners’ are people that are selfish POS that are more than likely up to no good and doing shit behind your back , Whether he is or isn’t , that’s someone I would really reconsider staying in a relationship with , Partners’ that need space aren’t meant for relationships period because they only care about themselves and nobody else but themselves. My ex started pulling that shit with me and that’s why she is my ex. Never tolerate nonsense like that , if someone needs space , walk in the other room , don’t disappear on your partner. I guarantee your husband is more than likely up to no good by him wanting you out of the house. Don’t tolerate that shit whatsoever

[Anonymous]

Tell him, "f*** you, I live here". "If you didn't want me to he here then you probably shouldn't have married me, let alone knocked me up".

I can understand a person wanting some, "me time" but there's a big world out there. And if he really wants to be home he should sit at the other end of the house/apt. I don't get why this'll even be a problem unless you were exceptionally noisy and he was trying g to nap. But even then, YOU'RE WORKING! Excuse you for trying to bring in income for the family.🙃😆

[shattered420]

That's weird AF!! Sounds like he's hiding something, What is he doing that you can't be home for? What about when your baby is born? is the baby going to interfere and have to leave too? Like fr it sounds like he is hiding something he knows is going to upset you or destroy the relationship.

[Asker]

He says he wants to listen to music etc. He pretty much does everything in my presence anyway from gambling and w**d to j**king off so there’s not much to hide unless he brings girls over

[shattered420]

That's Hella cool he's so open with the gambling, smoking, jerking, etc... but music is crossing a line? 🤔 sounds Hella sketchy personally.

[Asker]

He says I’m clinging on him but I most of the time do my own things when I’m home in the other room it’s not like I demand him to do anything with me it’s weird. I’m open to all that to avoid this hiding stuff but I guess there’s always more to hide

[shattered420]

Well sugar with my own personanl experiences with this kinda thing i would advise that you be prepared with an open mind and heart cuz you never know what you might find... I had nagging thoughts that my kiddos father was acting odd and when asked what was going on he said nothing. A year later I found online affairs, kinks/fetishs and that we are in financial ruin... I found all that out when my kiddo turned 1yr old... they are 4 now and I'm still discovering more and more.

[Finchie40]

Girl you ended up with the wrong guy , your husband is clearly a selfish POS person that only cares about himself , don’t be surprised when you find out he has been cheating on you because I’m sorry to say , he more than likely is by the way he is treating you. You aren’t his priority , you are just a convenience to him , Do yourself a favor and start making plans to move on from this asshole. When a guy loves a girl , there is no such thing as her being to clingy , he wants her in his arms as much as possible , so don’t fall for that nonsense , and understand you deserve better than that shit , one thing I have learned about relationships , is if you both never had an issue before and then all of a sudden it becomes an issue? There is definitely something going on that you are sadly be blind to. No guy that loves his girl is going to be bitching about her being clingy , He wants her in his arms as much as possible

[MzAsh]

Yikes! That’s rough, and you deserve to have your needs respected at home. Has he always been this controlling, or is this new since you became pregnant? What would it mean for you if you had the freedom to work as you see fit?

[Asker]

He was always like that. I’ve worked from home before we got married

[AI Opinion]

Navigating this situation calls for a heart-to-heart, sprinkled with a dash of romance and an extra heap of clear communication. Let's appreciate his need for "me time" but also spotlight your comfort and well-being, especially with a baby on board! Working from home while creating a little nest for your bun in the oven is not just a matter of convenience—it's about ensuring you're in the best possible space, physically and mentally. Maybe suggest a cozy compromise where both your needs are heard and met. Something like designated quiet hours or special "us" times might just turn the tide. Remember, love, it's about finding harmony in your home office symphony. Keep the conversation open, loving, and understanding. You’ve got this! 💕✨

[BetaBucks]

You mean he doesn't want you to. "Doesn't let" you, means he physically forces you to work outside of the house. If he's doing that, you can have him arrested and imprisoned for the rest of his life. If he's not doing that, ignore him. He can decide if he wants to stick around or withdraw his consent to remain in a relationship with you.

[nolabels]

I'm retired and my wife works from home.

Her doing so affects my life as to what I can or cannot do at certain times.
It's not a big deal.
I'd never consider complaining about the situation.
Never.

It simply is what it is.

It sounds to me as if your husband needs an attitude adjustment.

[Lliam]

Doesn't let you? Who made him boss?

It sounds like he doesn't care about your needs of comfort. It's all about him, him, him.

If I were you, I would work from home and tell him to get a life.

[DrPepper12]

"Effect his me time"? He should GTFOH and grow up. Plus you're PREGNANT!! Is he home during the day or something? He should be thrilled and grateful to spend this time with you!! What a selfish prick!!

[Yoursweetgirl]

@Finchie40 is so real I literally have nothing to add after his response.
Your husband is an asshole

[Finchie40]

I should set him up with my ex , they would be perfect for each other lol

[Nikki1989]

He sounds very selfish and controlling. I would be considering moving on.

[ItsaMeMaik]

honestly? That sounds suspicious. As if he was doing something at home that you shouldn't notice🙈

[Asker]

It’s ridiculous but he does pretty much anything in my presence

[ItsaMeMaik]

Thats strange. Do you have any idea why he says that?

[Asker]

Not a clue! The only thing he could hide is inviting girls over but it’s too risky for him my job is flexible I can come back home any time

[ItsaMeMaik]

Sorry for asking that but... hiw is your sex live? Maybe he needs a bit time for 'hinself' ?

[Asker]

It’s pretty good we’re open to anything as long as there’s no other person involved so if he wants to do something solo I would not stop him or anything and it’s been like that

[ItsaMeMaik]

Okay, thats strange. I really dont know. But it sounds so sispicious🙈

[bowenw]

If he can't get over it, you may have to go to the office or tell have him go to his workplace.

[JesseP1nk]

You "effect his me time"? He wants to jerk off and play videogames?

[Staximus]

Tell that bum to get off his ass and go get a job

[Wise4myage]

I’d tell him to stop being so selfish and only thinking about himself.

[kaucky1]

Shine flashlight in tummy see what gender of t is if a mega pinch it tells t to teleport out

[MasterKS]

Sorry to say you married with an asshole! Kick in his butt!

[spartan55]

Does your husband work at home too?

[slatyb]

OMFG divorce this asshole.

[Smashingdoozy]

That's suspicious

[Pterodon]

Let you?