Does she like talking to me even though she barely says anything on her mind?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, I am curious about something. There's a girl in my school who often says hi to me before this one class. After she says hi to me, she doesn't really say anything else and I end having to continue the conversations with questions. After she answers my questions (ques. like "how was your weekend?"), she almost all the time asks me the same question (her way of continuing the conversation?). Often when we have to end our "conversations" because we have to go to our seats, she ends them by saying "alright, good-bye" while smiling however she NEVER stops me abruptly if I am saying something. Sometimes if we pass by each other in the hallways, she smiles to me and I do the same (she doesn't do this if the hall way is crowded). I think she considers me her friend seeing as she's been saying hi to me for the last 3 months (and is still continuing). do you think she enjoys talking to me even though she never says on her mind? if yes, why? (Btw, something I noticed is that I'm one of the two guys she NORMALLY talks to. There are times when she talks to random guys she doesn't communicate with normally.)

[Gorce]

Well it seems to me she is talking to basically just you and one other guy because you two take lead in the conversation. She is probalby the type of person who makes conversation better when she can bounce off of someone(I tend to be the same way).

If she wants you to lead, I say take lead and talk about whatever you want with her(within reason of course). Sooner or later you are going to bring up a subject that makes her sparkle and come to life. Then you'll start knowing what she likes talking about.

I bet when you ask her how was your weekend. she says it was "ok " and stops to asl you how was yor weekend. She is just hoping you have some amazing story to tell her. She probably doesn't do much on the weekends, maybe she reads a book, works, studies or just visits her family. In her mind it is probably not exciting enough to expand on(in her mind) when you ask "how was your weekend".

Even if you have to lie a little, you can make up some amazing/wacky story about your adventures on the weekend. Watch her get all wide eyed and interested in your story.

[Asker]

Lol, I do tend to do the wacky story thing cause I enjoy seeing her laugh and giggle

[Gorce]

See there you go, you already figured it out. She is very interested in you and she hangs on your ever word. I have a feeling she is an avid reader and enjoys good stories. Keep the stories coming !!!!!!!

[Adidas12]

I think she likes you, but you won't ever find out unless you try to keep from talking to her. Usually what happens if you are interested in a girl, assuming she likes you, if you pull away a little, she will want your attention more. Don't do anything mean, don't deliberately try to avoid her, and don't do anything you normally wouldn't do, but the next time you have a conversation in class, don't talk as much. Keep the convo short, and see what something gradual like that does.

[cutieuk]

I think she likes you...She probably wants you to ask her if you would like to hang out with her . She is keeping it polite and doesn't want to bog your mind with psycho weird stuff that girls sometimes come out with. Same conversation...thats nerves, she doesn't know what to say or even if she does she might be afraid to say something silly. She wants to talk with you and make it known that she has an interest in you...seems like you are in with a good chance, if you like her back go for it! Good luck.

[Asker]

I'm not going to try anything with her because my one of my friends likes her but the sad part is he got rejected by her (he did such a stupid thing...he just randomly called her and said "I love you"...and he barely knowed her). he STILL likes her though...and I know his situation isn't going to improve and if I tried anyhting it would had insult to injury to him.

[cutieuk]

How tricky!!!! Well, to be frank if some guy randomnly called any girl they would think it's weird too, I'm sure you would if a girl did that to you!!

How much of a good friend is this guy to you? These things happen sometimes guys will like the same girl and some will get rejected. Why shouldn't you ask her out if you both seem to like each other, it's not as though she was actually dating your friend then that would make things a lot complicated.You will have to keep it on the DL for while

[Asker]

To be honest, I would be freaked but I would accept her if I like her and because I find what she did would take a lot of courage (plus I like things to be straight-forward like most guys ). I still believe though that my friend was "blinded by love" to have done this since he isn't the type to do this and yeah, he is a pretty good friend of mine. I am not going to ask her on a date because 1) I don't want to backstab my friend and 2) I am not allowed to date anybody (pretty sad and pathetic)

[Asker]

...I can't wait to get out of my parent's house. there have been quite a few girls I wanted to hang with but my parents are pretty stubborn about having relationships and dating

[EscapeKatie]

I think she's just waiting for you to ask her out, she seems really sweet so you should do it in a gentlemenly manor. Good luck! and if she says no just be a good friend and be there if she ever needs you. Don't give up.

[gymgirl7]

It just sounds like she's shy. Just continue the conversations and don't let it bother you. You should probably make the first move and ask her out if you like her then see how she reacts to that.

[Spelunker]

she might be uncomfortable talking in groups or crowds, like a school hallway. she might be too nervous to think of anything to say.

but if she wasn't interested in what you had to say, she wouldn't hear you out.

[joosydays]

I am the same way. She is probably really nervous because she likes you! For some reason, I get really clammed up around people I like, but when I'm around other guys, I can't talk to them. Good luck!