Because he likes you, and is afraid you will hurt him, somehow.
Men are the tough, rough, aggressive mofos in society, traditionally.
Women are thought of as the softer, sweeter, more caring side of the equation.
But I'll let you in on a little secret.
Women have the ultimate power over us. You have the ability to shred our hearts to ribbons, on a level so deep I do not think you are aware of it. It's not just a broken heart, or pain, it can scar a man for a lifetime. He may never get over a hurtful thing you say.
And it's because we let you in. You make an impression on us, as women.
But we don't like to admit it. No man ever really will. That you have the ability to crush us. Far more painful than anything we could ever do to you.
So when he is nervous, it means he likely cannot help but let you in, a little. And he's kinda scared. Maybe he was hurt in the past, but part of him thinks you're beautiful.
I'll tell you the truth, I have been through a lot. Two near fatal drug overdoses, an attempted murder. Jumping streetbikes, wrestling with wolves, shooting guns, doing dangerous things.
But when I am around some women I cannot even look them in the eye. Because I am afraid they may hurt me. Due to the fact that when I was younger and growing up, bitter little girls and even some women tore me down. Not casual comments, but looking deep into my heart and then making me regret ever being born at all.
34 years later I still remember it.
He is attracted to you, and you make him nervous. His rudeness is most likely him trying to function under the stress you make him feel. It is almost like he either needs to blurt something out, or risk losing his nerve to speak altogether.
Being shy is often mistaken for being a snob, or hating someone. Not caring about someone to the point that you are relaxed enough to joke with them is often confused for flirting and liking a person. So a lot of the advice we get about telling if someone likes us, doesn't always apply.
i had experience with both sids of this actually. I've behaved the way he is and I've been treated the same way he is treating you.
it turned out we both had feelings for each other, it didn't suddenly make things easier to know this. the reason we acted odd in the first place was because it was difficult for both of us to care or be intimate with other.
im saying this because you should keep in mind, that even if the guy likes you it doesn't mean he is not going to be difficult. id expect thing to be difficult... especially if he's already kind of ignoring you and being rude. if he likes you you've unraveled him and he may end up resenting you for that, so id go slowly.
but if you guys are already talking, why not just continue getting to know him, patiently. why is there a rush to figure out what his feelings ar or what his behavior indicates.unless you have a reason to rush. just take time to get to know him.. if you like him then be patient.
imo.
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He probably likes you, but there might be a slight chance that he hates you. I mean I kinda act that way in front of girls that I hate, but of course the girls don't know I hate them. Not trying to start drama.
He likes you and it seems you hv just meet this guy, he does not know what you like and what you don't. For sure he is not rude maybe he is just trying to entertain you , in this process he might even sound rude which is not. The key is you just stay relaxed and show him that you are interested in him and slowly he might change this way as soon as he gets comfortable around u.
Hate? He likes you so much that he's paralyzed with fear! He's afraid he will say the wrong thing so he gets shy.
I think he loves you and is afraid to get a no.
He doesn't want to screw up and does so by being too nervous.
If you like him, it's time to comfort him a bit and make him feel at ease with you!
He is a shy guy.
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