Girl, I understand everything going on and will explain the important things to you.
Let's start with he sees you as only a friend. If he liked you, he would have asked you out, as he already knows that you like him.
Him ignoring you and not looking at you doesn't mean he is avoiding you or doesn't like you. This is evident in the way he smiles at you and pleasant when you talk. Since you are a friend to him, he treats you like one, the way he treats a guy friend. Guys may have many friends and they don't always associate with them everyday. But they are still friends and when they do associate, they act the way they always do with them (like when you and him associate). You are treating your friendship with him as if you were his girlfriend or closest mate.
"He went snappy when I went to talk to other people for a bit". He is your friend and was enjoying talking to you and you went away like he didn't matter. Still, he shouldn't have gotten snappy with you, you have other friends lol.
Any other questions about other things you don't understand, I will explain to you. I have had guy friends all my life so I understand them :)
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He sounds very immature still. Like a typical high school boy. My advice would be to really just stop giving him attention and make him come to you. He knows you like him and that is the problem. He is using this to his advantage and probably enjoys the thrill and excitement of knowing you fancy him. At his age his ego is huge and every time you give him attention his ego is very happy. If he truly has feelings for you, he'll come to you and be friends and initiate things. You've done enough now and sometimes you have to reach a point where you just completely let go and say that what should be, will be. Think about it. If someone is truly into someone why would they ignore that person and act so hot/cold? It doesn't make sense which means he probably is not as into you as you are into him. Of course we don't know what the future holds and things could change, but for now you shouldn't give him the satisfaction of knowing you are crushing on him. Focus on other things for a bit.
Being male, i agree with XRabbitHeartX. Guys think so to attract the best part of girl which she always reserve for the maximum. Take a little break; not too much. Just stay at distance but at the same time he will catch your loveable feelings that is will be the best part for your relation.
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Hee don't even look at me he never open my message totally ignoring my existence 🥲
How about u talk to him
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