Polls: Guy's Behavior

I hear a lot of people, especially men, saying that blondes are hot or brunettes are the sexiest or that they have a thing for redheads. Both guys and girls: does hair color really matter? I personally think if someone's hot they're hot regardless of hair color. And the only reason I've dated brown haired men is that blondes are very uncommon in my area since it's mostly populated with people of Mediterranean European descent.

On a question I asked earlier I was told that I did not have an hourglass figure but pear because my bust was not exactly equal to my hips (39-25-40).

I personally feel that the requirements of an hourglass are:

1) That the woman must have a waist at least 12 inches less than her hips

2) That the woman's hip and bust measurements must be within 2-3 inches of one another.

Sofia Vergara (picture here: link ) is a good example of this (measurements 37-28-39).

What's your personal definition of the shape?

Have you ever been unfaithful in any of your relationships?

For those that chose "Other" , Can you give a reason an explain?

I had a discussion with a male friend of mine who kissed another woman other than his girlfriend, and he feels that "kissing" someone else does not count as being unfaithful...? In my book, it does! Thoughts?!

Whenever I see this guy, he'll talk to me and then right as I start to walk away, he will rub his upper arm into mine while we pass. It's not like he's being a brute about it like hitting me with his arm, he just sort of lightly brushes it with mine... It's confusing.

Why would you brush up against someone like that? Is that being flirty, friendly, or what?

:/ Thanks in advance.

So after reading the article on this site, 10 Signs He's A Player it sounded a lot like my boo. So I text him & tell him what I read, I tell him it said he was a player "lol" and he said "Lol, I used to be" So I asked him why he stopped all he said was "Lol I changed my life." I love him. we're always honest about sh*t, however this new information, mixed with my own way of treating people who have a past that spills into their present, has made me wonder. I'm wondering if I should hold it against him or just leave his past in the past (though he can't seem to).

So Ladies, What Do You Think? Once A Player Always A Player Or People Can Change?

Guys? Personal Experience & Or Personal Opinion; Once A Player Always A Player Or People Can Change?

They all look the same to me! ... So...

What does an organic cucumber look like?

What does a regular cucumber look like?

So basically I was chatting to a friend before and he said that (at least from his experience) most guys actually think that a girls bum is her best physical attribute (I realize that guys are different and that isn't the case for all) and this was pretty surprising to me, I've always assumed that boobs were basically the holy grail for guys.

So I was wondering what people actually think is the best physical attribute.

And I also want girls to vote as well, to see what girls believed was what guys thought.

I wish there was more than 5 options D:

My best guy friend used to really like me. I didn't like him immediately, but when I did he turned around and was all angry it wasn't on his watch... so because he didn't like me anymore and he wanted a girlfriend he used me because he was bored and lonely. Do you think he feels anymore remorse for that or has he just wiped it off of his mindset? It's been a year... but idk, that was a pretty traumatic event for me. To go from best friends to... I can't be friends with him anymore was really rough. I still haven't found a replacement. What do you think he thinks when he talks to me or thinks about me? How bad he feels? Or how happy he is that he got his little revenge?

What do you think of girls that use their looks to get ahead?

I'm asking this question because an acquaintance of mine that I interned with at the radio stations a few years ago now has a job with them as an account manager.

She knows I do good work with my company, so she contacted me and I asked her how she a got that job (because I knew she didn't have the experience for it) and she told me the truth (which I was shocked that she told me the truth), she was dating the programmer. Then she proceeded to tell me why she dated him, and it was to get the job. (I think she is a bubble brain for telling me, or maybe not because I am not really telling anyone who cares)

I have nothing against her personally. I just don't know what to think? A part of me says, "hey, more power to her." The other part of me says, "hey, is that even fair? What if someone else wanted that job that really deserved it, and worked hard for it?"

What do you guys think?

Lets assume there's nothing wrong with me.

We're friends and he thinks I am attractive.

He HAS rejected me before, saying he wasn't ready for a relationship.

But I'm not convinced that I should give up.

Tips? Ideas? How do I convince him that he should give me a chance and be with me? ANYTHING GOES!

Poll: Have you ever managed to seduce a friend?

Guys, do you prefer the look of visible/prominent collarbones, or collarbones that you can't really see at all. *Provided the girl is at a healthy weight, and not anorexic.

non prominent: link

prominent/visible: link