Polls: Guy's Behavior

He said I had the thickest ass he’d ever seen. He said the pictures I was taking and the clothes I was wearing were amazing.

Pictures being nudes I was sending

He sent this to his best friend is this a compliment?

About other girls he said so and so lost weight but is keeping up the thick status and looks phenomenal js that a better compliment than mines?

he doesn't have a place of his own, only his own car. he lives in a small apartment with his mom and 3 siblings and my house has people too and we're both in our early 20s

well the love of my life i met him a few weeks ago, on December, we said we're with each other only, but i had sex with a guy this week, and i don't if ill tell him today that ill see him, we both told each other that we're falling in love of each other. but well i wanna keep seeing the guy i was with before him, and i told him about him, the previous guy told me he wasn't that into me and that he didn't like talking to someone everyday, and i told him i didn't want to be friends with benefits with him, and now i do want to because, this new guy im in love with can only see me on fridays and weekends, and that's too little for me, he says i won't be always, it just he's got more work because it's summer, but still, i wanna keep seeing the other guy, plus the other guy is generous with drugs, and my new guy doesn't care about inviting me that, and i have so much fun with mdma, i buy that and i like to be invited to have sex and do mdma and i also invite mdma but my new guy doesn't even do that, he doesn't like mdma, he likes cocaine and i dont do that. well there is also another guy i wanna keep seeing, he was my dance teacher and i dont want something serious with him too, i just like having fun with him , these two guys are so fun , i like having sex with em and do drugs with em, during the days im not with my love of my life, also, I've been on relationships all the time, im kinda tired of that, i didn't want this love of my life to come now but he did and well i wanna do things right but i hate that i could never really enjoy my singleness...

what do you think? should i tell him all this?

So i flirted with this guy in work but we had a little tiff, i left the work place then he blocked me on fb straight away, i added him without sending a message. I sent an apology and generally a nice message on nye on Instagram... Time went by and there was no response at all. So i sent a simple hi on another account last night and he blocked all accounts but no chance hed know it was me.

He is on sm a lot, like all the time.

Me and my ex boyfriend of 4 years broke up 4 months ago

I walked away from the relationship because he got too toxic

We had a really messy break up

There was no contact afterwards

Until the morning of new years day - he sent me a rude email saying the following:

- happy new year sl*t

- no guy will ever want me

- im ugly

- my friends will not stay forever in my life

- he's messaging me because im nothing

- im just a "tap and dump"

- guys only would f*ck me if they're desperate or no other option

Why is he insulting me?

Be honest, guys. Do you really think you know what women want?

I met a guy online who told me he stayed on dating sites for 3 years. He told me he never had sex with anyone except for one girl three years ago. He travelled all the way to my city for four hours just to meet me.

When I first met him, I did pull away, but then he tried to prove that not all men are the same. He didn't force me to have sex with him. But then he told me something that somehow scared me—he doesn't want to commit. I did not bother to think about it and just had a good time with him. We shared a lot of talks, fun, and walks. We were both happy and just sending out positive vibes until we had sex together.

After the two days we spent together, he said he had to leave me to visit his friend "girl" in another city, which is 30 minutes away. I was curious about it, but he said she is just a family friend, and they have been friends for many years and are very close. Her family is already his family. He stayed there for three days, and I did not bother to overthink it.

We still communicated together right after he left, and we have been calling and texting each other for three weeks now, getting to know each other better. He eventually told me that he wanted to get serious about me; he sent a lot of kiss and hug emoticons. We become more comfortable with each other.

Now, he told me he wants to drop by to see me in the city next week. I asked him, "Where are you going?" He said to his friend, "Girl," again for two days, but his ultimate goal is to meet me.

I felt uncomfortable and scared if he was telling the truth, and I somehow doubted that this girl could be his girlfriend or fling. I pulled away again from him, even if it did hurt me a lot, and said I needed space.

Now my question is, do I need advice on whether I shouldn't be jealous of this friend's "girl" OR should I be suspicious and cautious of this guy?

It might sound silly, but one time i heard that if a guy is definitely into you or wants to know you, he will talk to you, show that he is interested and if he won't do it, it's because he is not into know.

I think is fact, men are less complicated than women. But what do you think, guys?

boyfriend of three years, good guy loyal from what I’ve known. We were talking about random stuff and I asked “have you seen me in shorts in public?” (He doesn’t like when I wear shorts in public) he said “yes” I said “when?” He said “in Santa Cruz” I have never worn shorts to Santa Cruz and we went only once together. I told him that I didn’t and he was sure I did with a Selena shirt (I’m a big Selena fan) I had some suspicion in my tone and he said “stop”. I do have some trust issues so I constantly look for things that don’t add up and this doesn’t. Anyone else have thoughts or am I overthinking?

a small soft bump

His personality- introvert, quiet, mature, sleepy 😂

We both share a playful kinda friendship.. keep on annoying the shit out of each other. We spend the whole day together because we dont vibe much with other people. (We have similar personalities)

Sometimes he would hold my hand during the whole lecture.

I just take him as a super good friend, and I'm already with someone else. My friend knows that and kinda adores my relationship as well.

This feels so icky to me because do they even like you or just that you are their body type

Whenever we're in the same room he seems so afraid.

It’s no secret that men are constantly being conditioned to be “strong” and not show too much weakness of vulnerability. How does this affect you today? Do you feel comfortable sharing your emotional side with the opposite sexe? Have you ever tried it? How was it received? Would you do it again?

He seems to really enjoy double dates with other couples (his friends) but I am starting to think that there is something off always having other people around, could we not enjoy the same thing just the two of us? Is he getting bored in the relationship?

I mean I wouldn’t forget if I didn’t like it I definitely wouldn’t do it again no matter the time span.

He only wants to once a week and says it’s amazing but is that why there is the time gap it’s not that good?

I come from a conservative community, so I hear a lot of complaints about how new generations of men aren't "manly enough" for this reason or that reason. People saying Harry Styles isn't a man because he wears a dress, or you're not manly if you paint your nails or things like that. Wouldn't it be better to assume, for your sake and for theirs, that masculinity changes as time goes on?

It was only recently brought to my attention that every generation of men has complained about the new generation of men, going all the way back to the time of Ancient Rome when men complained that men weren't manly enough compared to the generation before them. The person presenting it gave this idea of "We can never meet the standards of masculinity if they always come from the past" so I'm curious. Do you ever feel like you can never meet those manly standards?