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So i flirted with this guy in work but we had a little tiff, i left the work place then he blocked me on fb straight away, i added him without sending a message. I sent an apology and generally a nice message on nye on Instagram... Time went by and there was no response at all. So i sent a simple hi on another account last night and he blocked all accounts but no chance hed know it was me.
He is on sm a lot, like all the time.
He is on sm a lot, like all the time.
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I should probably say it eas under a different name too... which is why im certain he read it
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I can't se any logical sense y he didn't read it. Both acs were in different names, he would have to have gone thro the profile to block them both. Why not block my original account?
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I don't think he did. He's sending you a pretty clear message that he doesn't want to be in contact with you so I'm pretty certain he didn't read your message.
He would never know it was me last night
If he has blocked all accounts he knows something or he's avoiding something.
Because i was just a random bot account to him. He didn't block when i sent the first one
I guess what I'm trying to say is that he doesn't want to be messaged.
Shouldve blocked my first one then. He has no conscious about blocking accounts. Anyway im not doing anymore chasing llol
Smart move on your part! His loss!
i checked my mums phone and he's blocked on hers, because i used hers to create the account i sent him the message on Friday. so he blocked me on that account not my actual account (the one i sent the real message on apologising etc)
my mum wasn't even in the house, so nothing to do with blocking IP's, it just recognized her number
"Little tif at work"... amplify.
Lashed out n i didn't think hed be that bothered
@asker
Guys DO NOT like that shit... guess you learned that this time.
I know. I was confused about my emotions and he didn't care about distracting me so there was a lot of reasons y i did it.
Doesn't really matter what your reasons were. This is a guy you 'flirted with', you weren't even dating him. That makes it even worse.
"didn't care about distracting me"
What does that mean?
I know, he were distracting me from my work and i confronted him, he didn't care and was carrying on. I mean i enjoyed it but I've been played before so im fed up of guys playing me i know now i shouldn't have done it hence the apology, he was after it at the time but i didn't realise he was that bothered
My self esteem is pretty low
You can't get played by a guy you haven't even dated.
Well thats not true. There was a guy ib colllege i flirted with, he got my number but had no intention of dating me cos he was gay. Guys can play girls at any time
No, don't think so. So you twisted off on this guy because he was 'distracting you'. How would that be playing you. You seem to thrive on drama.
He gave me a really long look aswell at my desk. He knew i liked him and wouldn't quit flirting with me
I flirted first
I really liked him but was paranoid he was too good to be true. So i half n half self sabotaged it. I've never had a boyfriend so couldn't believe y any guy would want to even speak to me
What did you say to him?
Re:your update.. he didn't block the first time because he figured you would get the hint that he didn't want to talk to you. Stop trying to somehow shift the blame onto him. YOU did this.
Then u admit he read it n he shouldve said thabks but im not interested
Where did I admit that? Nowhere. He was avoiding you.
I had a different name on that account, he didn't know it was me
Too much of a coward to tell me he wasn't interested? He must get girls fawning after him alll the time, he's pretty hot
If you had a different name on that account than how would he know it was you... uh exactly... just stop already IT DOESN'T MATTER
You just don't get it. He's not a coward if you didn't tell him you were interested. You have to tell him. That's how it works. Again blame shifting...
You sound bat shit crazy tbh.
I've genuinely never felt this way about anyone and nnoone else has behaved the way he did around me. Noone, he was so nice to me and it felt so natural like we'd known each other other years.
I put my name at the end of the message
It was so obvious he knew the girl i texted told me He knew
You still need to tell him yourself. How do you not understand this?
Well i can't now.. If i see him in person again I would
Yeah, I don't believe that.
Why not? I know now he didn't block me from my original account, actually got my confidence back
Because you had ample opportunity to do it before... and you didn't. Just because he didn't block doesn't mean he wants anything to do with you.
Because he wasn't talking to me for 3 weeks. He acted like I didn't exist. I can't ask someone out in work it wou, d be embarrassing
Then why not block? he blocks a lot of people. I overheard him talking about doing it to someone else he was actually hanging out with. He has no conscience for blocking people
I had it all planned to do it the week before he left but I wasn't allowed in so
You "weren't allowed in"? At work? What's that all about?
Before he left? I thought YOU left?
You can't draw any hard conclusions based on him not blocking you. Doesn't matter what he 'usually did', IT DOES NOT MATTER. If he wanted to talk to you, he would have. PERIOD.
I'm noticing a trend with you. You focus on the parts of this situation that are completely irrelevant. It's very odd.
Who said anything about asking him out? I was referencing simply expressing your interest. Which, again, you had ample opportunity to do BEFORE you flipped out.