Questions: Guy's Behavior

Alternative title: Jocks and the guys who envy them - should they just hook up?
For a little while, I lurked the incel community. I noticed that while all of them were angry at women for not getting laid, their actions and talk was more about...

get this...

getting the approval of their fellow men instead of women.

Similarly, a lot of these guys that try to appear as masculine as they can, the 'machismo' aspect seems to bug women more than intrigue them.

Again...

they're acting more to get the approval of their fellow men instead of women.

You would think that a straight man would view other men as competition, and would focus more on getting the approval of women than the approval of 'the bros'. I mean, if you're straight, there's only one group you're going to instinctively try to sleep with, and therefore only one group you need to worry about getting the approval of.

So... all the women-hating incels and hyper-machismo guys... could it be they really are all just bi or gay and in denial?

Basically desperate guys that’s just chase after women and give women constant free validation and attention. I see it all the time on here especially when a girl post a picture and you can tell she is doing it for free validation. Especially guys age 25-40 on here are bad usually some younger and older people aren’t as bad. But in real life is it as bad as on here. I’m not against being friendly and all but I feel like so many guys nowadays are just so desperate towards girls and it’s embarrassing and if they just stopped I bet more girls would like them so it’s like I’m trying to help them but they get all pissy at me. Please answer and give opinions thanks