Polls: Guy's Behavior

So it’s been going on two weeks now that my boyfriend spends 12+ hours playing video games. Now I’ve asked his brothers and their girlfriends and I guess it‘s a pretty normal thing around here to always be playing video games. No one is working right now so there isn’t much to do. The reason I’m upset is simple. He plays video games from 8PM the night before til 8AM the next morning. He sleeps til 3PM, we take a walk, he has dinner with me and spends an hour or so with me and is back on by 8PM. And it’s this vicious cycle. I normally get upset, but not upset to the point that I want out. But today, he pushed it. Yesterday he slept til 6PM, ruining not only our day but the last day his whole family is in town together. When he finally woke up, we all had dinner and by 8PM he was back on the game. It is 11:30AM and he JUST went to bed. And only bc I yelled at him and threaten to call his boss since he’s going to work at 4PM and it’s unsafe for him to work without sleep. Then he expects to come home from work at midnight and already told his gamer friend he’d be on at 1AM to quest. I’m so angry bc it’s like he never fucking spends time with me, he never sleeps next to me, he ruins our day and the bit of time we actually get to spend with his family, and on top of all this? He just yelled at me saying I’m negative and I’m the reason he doesn’t want to come to bed and how he’s a grown man and gets to decide what to do with his time, etc. Like somehow by victimizing himself, I’d understand why he games. No! Instead it makes me want to leave bc what the fuck is the reason for me to stay? I am so angry but I need to know, do I even have the right to be angry? What should my next move be?

I can look at a guy and think “I want to date him”, but most of guys i’ve come across have said they have to get to know the girl first. I thought wanting to date someone was an intuition type of thing first

The guy I'm talking to at the moment admitted he liked me a while ago, but wasn't super straightforward about it. He wanted to know why I was asking, and then when I told him, he said 'ye I might' but it was obviously very clear he was interested, hence why I asked. We went through a stage where he was unsure of how he felt cause he had been so busy, and now I think he's figured it out, but I asked and all he said 'idk maybe'. He's not the best at talking about his feelings, haha.

The thing is though, the way he talks to me and some of the things he says make it very evident that he's keen, but he won't tell me straight up. To make it a little more complicated, we're doing long distance so it's harder to see each other and talk about this in person. However, he said he isn't a player, and also recently told me he isn't ready for a relationship due to his last one. He also isn't talking to any other girls besides his friends.

Recently I had been talking to a guy, but due to the lockdown we aren't able to see each other and have stopped talking. I have the feeling that he will reach out again when the lockdown is over and we can hang out, but I don't know. Today, he accidentally reacted to one of my Instagram story highlights (the story was from about a year ago), he later texted me to say "sorry, I didn't mean to send you that" and the laughing emoji, which means that he was looking through my profile, does that mean something?

And is it obvious when a guy catches feelings?
Will he start acting weird or even distancing himself from you?

~~How do you act around someone you've developed feelings for / started developing feelings for? 🤔

I've currently got a guy acting quite strange around me (see my other recent questions).

It’s nerve-wrecking because Mama’s boys usually know how to treat a lady right. Not all but most. However, some let their mom control their life and that annoys me. I used to be a mama’s girl but even she started to try to manipulate me and get all narcissistic so i’m easing away from her. Yet, i still know how to respect a guy 🤷‍♀️ Not sure if it works the same for mama’s girls as it does for mama’s boys but yea. So like im just trying to figure out whose still a gent without being up their moms azzes.
#FeelFreeToList #CallingAllMamasBoyz

It might be a silly question, but in my experience with the guys I know and dated a lot of them preferred my hair straight.
Some were even rude enough to ask me to straighten it permanently.
Of course a few prefer or like curly hair but they are much less weirdly enough.
I never understood why🤷🏿‍♀️ maybe they perceive it more feminine?

Hate to break it to you guys, but it's not attractive.