Polls: Guy's Behavior

So long story short this guy and I started talking and we both clicked and spent multiple days together just hanging out. We started making out and being intimate/ cuddling. We didn’t want to rush into things and both mutually wanted to fall in love with our best friend. Out of the blue he just went cold so I separated myself and then he stated he didn’t want kids (I have 2) which confused me even more so I backed off. He invited me over to look at my car (which he’d put off for a while) and then said I could hang out if I wanted. I didn’t try to cuddle or anything like we used to and he traced my arm and laid me on his chest. He invited me to go see a movie. I’m just confused. What in the heck?

For context, there is a cute guy who I’ve seen staring at me. When I look at him, he will smile and/or say hi too.

It happens mostly when he is walking near me, or we are walking towards each other. He almost seems fixated on me, he will be staring at my eyes. Then when I look at him, he smiles.

This doesn’t happen all the time, sometimes it’s just a few glances at each other.

Seeing myself in trouble I can tell they’re not the knights in shining armours.

I’m planning on approaching my crush soon but don’t want to come across as a weirdo

Short Background:

So I'm friends with this guy, not close or anything, but I do like him.

I don't know if he likes me or not, he offered to tutor me for maths online since he'll be in a different city for Uni.

I'm wondering whether he was just being nice, or if he was giving an indication he likes me, or something else.

Hello all 😊

I know this question probably seems odd, but I don’t have a lot of experience with men and I’m quite crap at reading signals. I also have no confidence because my first crush humiliated me. I’ve been seeing this guy at work and he caught my eye. He doesn’t work in my department. The interactions started with him smiling at me with prolonged eye contact (I have never really seen him talking to girls outside of his department except for one who works in the canteen)

It was always him who smiled first and it was me who looked away first

I eventually said hi to him and we have little conversations now and then

After I first said hi to him, he went though a phase of ignoring me and looking away from me when we were in the same area

When we talk, he stands quite close to me and his pupils are very dilated

When we are talking, his eyes are fixated on mine and he will glance at my lips quickly before going back to my eyes

He seems somewhat fidgety when we talk
Yesterday, he smiled and we said hi, and then when I started chatting to him properly, he smiled even more

I was walking to the canteen and my (prettier) friend was walking in front. He was walking towards us but he was fixated on me and didn’t even look at her

My friends say they have seen the way he looks at me, and to quote, “they would be upset if their boyfriend looked at another girl the same way”
I’ve noticed that when we are in the same vicinity, he will tidy his hair and check it in his phone camera

Sometimes we won’t have any interaction, just a few glances and that’s it

It’s just baby steps at the moment, but do you think he may find me attractive?

He keeps a certain amount of distance between me and him… he follows back all his other students on instagram but never followed me back (and I unfollowed him).

He flirts with me, gets mad when I like someone else, and expects me to only take guitar advice off him and his mate… he got a bit mad when I post on Facebook asking about guitar/musician related stuff and then he always texts to say stop looking on Facebook, other people don’t know what they’re talking about (true, but there’s some good advice on there too). Also during guitar lessons if I mentioned I had a lesson with someone else or took advice from someone else he’d say “you’ll only confuse yourself if you listen to other people’s advice, they don’t know the angle that we’re coming from” but then he will say something that completely contradicts “there’s no secret to learning guitar, it’s all just hard work and focus” but then he makes it out to be some wishy-washy thing like there’s an inner circle of musicians who know the secrets to playing… I feel like I’m going crazy. Then another guitarist explains something to me in such a simple way (his friend) and I understand it better. Is he trying to confuse me and undermine my confidence so I get more lessons with him?
Really strange because all his other students say how great he is and how he’s really helped them… I just get more confusion. I also said how I want to learn jazz standards etc. and he said that what I’m trying to learn is too complexed at the moment… but I can play it fine with a bit of practise? I dunno just feels like he’s scamming me and giving better teaching to other people… why would this be?

Do you think it’s weird my nice gentleman male boss (I’m female) was on lunch break passing by me and told me to do something work related? He was on break clocked out yet still wanted to boss me around? By the way he’s not my direct manager

In December 2024, I met a guy on an app and was instantly attracted to him. He expressed that he found me pretty, which made me feel special. Despite the age difference of 1 year and 10 months—me being older—I didn’t think it would lead anywhere serious. However, I was pleasantly surprised when we began talking every single day. He would text me at any moment, even while he was at school or at practice, sharing pictures of what he was doing. Our conversations often stretched late into the night, sometimes until 1:00 AM, and he consistently sent me good morning texts that brightened my day.

As our connection deepened over the months, I noticed that he was genuinely invested in my life, asking about my family and recommending places he thought I’d enjoy. His enthusiasm is evident in his texting style; he often double, triple, and even quadruple texts, which shows how much he enjoys communicating with me. However, about six months in, while he was on vacation, his good morning texts stopped, although he still reached out regularly.

Now, nearly a year into our relationship, I’m left wondering why he hasn’t asked me out. It feels like we have a strong bond, akin to a romantic relationship, yet there’s no official label. He has shown signs of jealousy when I mentioned dating someone else, which makes me think he has deeper feelings for me. Despite our closeness, I’m unsure if he sees me as just a close friend or if he’s hesitating to take the next step. Our dynamic is unique, filled with warmth and connection, but I can’t help but wonder what’s holding him back from making a move.

First and last!

Little drunk college finals over and needed a release so we had drinks and it lead to other stuff. He rushed off to pee. Good but he comes back and his thing is dripping worse then my sister after she had kids!

Gross so it ends and so mad telling him to wipe and he says he did and it just comes out for a while after.

Do guys just leak?

She finds people he’s connected follows and comments things about him under their page mind you she doesn’t know them… she does it on different social media platforms

He did hurt her feelings after they dated and he ghosted her…

There’s a lot of elements to the story

Unstable woman

What to do when she quit her job in education…tags me in post insulting him on different platforms.. they talked briefly and he ghosted her after a date and called her unstable and told her I didn’t want to sleep with her bc she would be “crazier “… I told him that wasn’t nice to say if she liked you

She did tell him in the beginning that she wasn’t trying to get into anything serious to protect her mental and emotional being

He’s just been silent about it the whole time and doesn’t engage

Men what would you do in this situation

My friend and I was juat saying some shit

But then he told me how I needed God.

Then he proceeds to tell me this but this quote :

" you will never get married if you cuss "

I told him I am who I am and im working on myself and some other shit



Was he right to say that?



I don't cuss 24/7
I just cuss when I'm angry or shocked or upset at something like saying wtf or wth or fucked or etc