Polls: Guy's Behavior

My colleagues went down for breakfast but I didn’t feel like going.

One of my colleagues, who I get on really well with, said to me when he saw me “missed you at break” but he said it quite softly/quietly

Could this indicate that he likes me or am I reading too much into it?

Girl’s opinions are also welcome!

Do/Did you kiss your woman (wife, fiancée, girlfriend, partner, etc.) on the back of her hand and/or forehead?

It melts my heart whenever a guy kissed the back of my hand, because I felt that he was expressing affection and the kiss was non sexual. I like a balance between sexual/passionate kisses and non-sexual/affectionate kisses.

What I'm worried is whether it's something that a lot of guys commonly do, or only some do? I'm not worried by a lot, but I've thought about this question.

The title may be off.

What I mean is how do you act, what kind of girls do you go after when drunk? Standards do probably get a little lower when drunk, but I can't imagine that a normal guy (no simp, no sex-withdrawn dude) would go and cuddle/kiss/have sex with just ANY girl.

I believe he must find her attractive, at least face-wise if not anything else. Am I right?

Sorry, I posted this question earlier but didn’t really put any context in it.

I have a crush on a coworker. We have a flirty relationship and we get on really well. We have been there for each other through difficult times. He has shown mild jealousy at times and is affectionate outside of work when we’ve had a few drinks. He was the one who organised my birthday presents and card (for my 30th)

Recently, on a night out, I admitted to him that I like him more than a friend. I asked him if he felt the same way and he kept saying “you’re a lovely person”. When I asked him to answer the question, he said “yes I do” and sounded annoyed.

He was hot and cold with me at work after that but things have gone back to normal. In fact, when I was on holiday, one of our coworkers asked if he misses me and he said straight away “it’s very quiet”

Today, we were just chatting and it was just the two of us. I said to him “well you clearly hate me a lot” to which he said “yes…. immensely”

I’ve heard guys say the opposite of what they really mean when teasing. Was this him saying that he likes me?

We never talk and we never were on any projects together. Yesterday he asked me if I was in the office yesterday when he was in Home office and if I would come tomorrow. This might be the second time he talked to me in 4 months so it’s not like we are friendly.

We were talking and having a bit of banter. I said something about not being perfect. And I said I don’t think I’m perfect. He kept asking me why and I said things such as “I don’t like myself” or “I’m damaged goods” and he kept saying “I’m not having that / I don’t believe you”

Was he hinting that I’m perfect to him?

I was at a friend's party. I have met his brother before but this is the first time we really chatted, about nothing in particular. he's quite attractive, reticent and chill, albeit mischievous. I didn't chat too much at the party, kept it low key.

As the night died down, a few of us were left, drinking and chatting. We both got along well, both of us were chill and quiet while others chatted. We talked a few times across the room, friendly and smiley, nothing crazy. Once everyone left, we all cleaned up and had some laughs about the night. Both he and I both slept over my friend's apartment.

The next morning, a few of us were watching TV and chatting, getting along. At some point when everyone was quiet, watching the show, my friends brother and I locked eyes across the room for a very long time, around 4-5 seconds of super intense eye contact. He looked into my eyes very calmly and confidently and I did the same back. Neither of us smiled but there was a noticeable intensity and potency to it, but nothing creepy or scary but rather... intense.

I can't tell what happened between us. It's really sticking in my head. The intensity of his look, I liked it a lot. He felt very confident and self assured.

I left and there was an awkward side hug and thats all.