I have a flirty relationship with a male colleague. We told each other that we liked each other on a night out when we were slightly drunk.
Just a brief summary of his flirting: he teases me because he likes annoying me, he does silly things to get my attention, he stares at me, I’ve seen him glancing at my body
The other day, we were sitting next to each other and chatting. I noticed that he kept glancing at both of my eyes and then kept looking at my mouth. He kept doing this repeatedly. We then sat gazing and smiling at each other, not saying anything, for what seemed like ages.
Today, we were joking around and I told him to fight me for something. He then proceeded to stand right in front of me, so close that we were almost touching, and then he stared at me.
Does this suggest that he still likes me?
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Okay so you like each other, now what? You shouldn’t be having to try and guess or look for signals, he should be making some sort of move to court you now that you know there mutual interest. The thing is this: what if he only wants to flirt and have that dynamic at work but doesn’t want anything outside of it? Especially since you work together? You’re not watching out for your best interest at all, just falling in love without even asking him the right questions. You’d be devastated if this turned out to be nothing and you could’ve prevented the hurt.
Based on that alone, no.
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