If you were used by people your whole life would you want to kill yourself?

Question

I'm a quite and shy girl I don't really talk to people. But people always pretend they want to be my friend but all they want to do is know my secrets and go behind my back and make up rumors about to ruin my reputation. They also turn me into their little servant who does their bidding. When I try to stand up for my self I'm always in the wrong. I feel trapped with no other options but to end my life.

Jazz101 · Accepted Answer

No , I'd WANT to kill them , wouldn't do it but i d think about killing them before killing myself for sure* it's not your fault that people nowadays are cruel and have no sense of real value * you'll be okay though* one day just one person will show you kindness like never before and you'll realise being the better person that you are would be all worth it* also don't care about people who don't care about you. If you always show up to a girlfriends party invites and you invite her and she always cancels , she clearly doesn't care enough to show up , try to really think about who is worthy of being your friend. As for me , my friends don't call or text me? Tough sh*t and remember to never open up to someone who you don't have something on , they ll think twice about telling everyone your secrets * i know it's hard to confide in someone , my best friend told all my secrets to my boyfriend , you know stuff that I talked to her about , we were living together and so because I was in a better financial state than her, I kicked her out. Havnt spoken to her since and I made it clear that she made her choice and my guy obviously didn't choose her , so I won. Surround yourself with people who are afraid to lose you , and use it to your advantage , but don't use them. It's difficult sometimes to clarify between the 2 , but the more people you lose just remember at some point you'll get better at it and you'll learn what kind of people you want in ur life not need , because you are good enough to choose

scarygoodyr34 · Accepted Answer

You have to stop caring about what other people think of you. Trust me, it's a waste of time. I used to be for a while in high school so set on my "image" and I realized I'm not going to put myself through worrying about other people's opinions. I'm happier with myself. I've set some goals for myself and am in the process of accomplishing them. As you grow older, you will become more confident in yourself too. :)
Rumors can be difficult to deal with. Some people can be so damn sexist nowadays and insensitive and just rude.
Maybe you could talk to a school therapist/counselor about it?
Don't spend time around people who are negative. Find people who accept you for you and you're all set. :)

Alexei_Ustinov · Accepted Answer

Where has the river of life carried you, and under what circumstances do you meet such people? Do you keep hanging around people like this? Or do you cut them loose when they do this to you? If you have only been hanging around a certain group of people throughout your life, you need to find a completely new group of people to be your friends. There are good people out there, you just have to find them. When these people try to tear you down, it is important to have a good center, something to keep you grounded, whether it be a passion, a religion, hopes and dreams, or ideals. It is important for your well being to have something uniquely your own people can't take away from you, and have that give you strength in your darkest hours. Every human being is special and one-of-a-kind, don't let these horrible people tear you down so much. But it is important you sever yourself from them. Always remember though, better to have one true friend than a crowd of people you don't know very well you associate with. Standing before you, by the certainty of the rising sun there is a best friend out there waiting for you.

Conrad_Kelsiven · Accepted Answer

When you try to stand up for yourself you are always wrong? Remove that mindset. You get to be your own person, no matter what anyone else says. Don't let others dictate your life.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck em. They're cunts. Sorry if I've offended someone saying the c word but it's true. Just imagine the intellect and depth of character it takes to spread rumours about some poor insecure girl. Like a fucking five year old. But no, love. You should never kill yourself over something like that. Next time someone says something, just imagine they're talking like the gossipy useless pieces of shallow shit they are.
My advice: work on your own personality, because looks fade eventually. Who cares about this. Picture the future: when you're 70 years old and married, the guy (or girl) isn't going to have that same level of attraction, and that's inherent. But if you're a kind, sweet, loving and forgiving person, people will remember the person you were instead of the shallow bullshit 'body figure' and 'omg she did that?' Kind of garbage.
Just remember that it doesn't matter what they say. If you're right, you're right. Something someone else said isn't going to change some arbitrary shit about having sex. Just ignore them, they're wrong. Let them prattle about being wrong, and realise how fucking stupid they are.

taarn01 · Answer

By that I should have done it a long time ago. I learned to judge people by their actions. I am very sure you are a wonderful person and deserve sooooo much better. Don't do it. It's not worth it. I had a friend recently last year who did commit suicide. It leaves such a negative impact on the community you live in. I bet there are so many people who care for you and want the best for you. Don't let stupid people ruin your life. I was called monster and a freak my entire high school career just because my skin was always cold and pale and my eyes are not a normal color which force the sunglasses you see in my picture. Keep living

Victoria14 · Answer

Id rather kill them haha. But that is no reason to kill yourself. there are horrible people out there, yes. but there are still good people. Being quiet and shy is not a problem. im the same way! you probably just prefer being independent which is perfectly fine. If you hang out/talk with people who put you down and hurt you in any way, screw them! ignore them, dont associate with them and dont let their rumors affect you. You know who you really are and thats what is important. Good people that you can associate yourself with positively will come your way. Just dont end your life because of some stupid, stuck up bitches :) haha

ImKervin · Answer

I wouldn't want to end my life so much as I would want to end theres. Tell me good friend , what reward is there to end a life solely because of those rats? Continue standing up for yourself ! work on your character and patience. Do not open the door to the reaper.

ironeddie · Answer

No absolutely not. Yes it is difficult being in your position. But what I recommend you do is not worry about that crap. Get the education you went to college for. Once you're done and out in the real world working. Things will be a lot different.
When people have issues of mortgages, bills, taxes, families, children etc. Things are a lot different. They have matured and are beyond the late teen early 20 carefree mentality.

HappyToBeAlive · Answer

From a guy whose been used by people and still has a smile on his face, your life has not begun. Fuck people, and fuck everything. Go outside and just find the meaning of life. You're young and have not tasted anything that this world has to offer. Love yourself. Never think something like that ever again please.

thetundrawolf · Answer

I would, if I had a very tender, pure heart.

You have such a heart. I am very sorry people do these things to you. But you must learn to trust your instincts. They are telling you the intentions of these people. But you must learn to listen.

chidude · Answer

No but I would cut those people out of my life. Don't waste your time in that circle. They are not your friends.

nickstaa · Answer

I thinknif people can't stand up for themselves then they will be used. I also think you worry too much about what other people think. People always backstab and start false rumours, you've just got to not take that stuff personally.

kairon156 · Answer

I would want to work as hard as I can to make money and get away from those people.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't end my life just cause of them, tell them shut it show them you can defend yourself don't stay behind, don't let them bring you down they aren't worth it

They aren't worth it specially if you think Suicide is option

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