Do guys only want a flat defined abs/stomach on a girl?

[Anonymous]

My stomach has always been a problem area for me... at my thinnest I still have a bit of flab if im slouching... etc.
I don't have well defined abs or a six pack... in order to get it I'd be really ill because I'd be underweight (been there, done that). Am I unattractive cause of it? I've got tiny arms and toned legs cause I work out regularly.
All I seem to see is guys who go after those girls with well defined abs...

[schlierkampification]

You're not alone. In your case, it doesn't sound like my case. But I'm what's called skinny-fat. It's not actually "fat" anymore, but it's getting close to it. I'm 6'4" and have long slim arms and long slim legs and I have some fat around the tummy. I think it's age related and also from not working out as regularly as I should.

If you want to go after belly fat, the best thing you can do is eat right. Never miss a meal. If you eat three meals per day, make sure they are around the same times every day. And remember the rule of thirds. One-third of your plate should be complex carbs, one third should be protein, and one third should be veggies, and you should be drinking plenty of water. Do that for 12 weeks and see if it makes a difference. 80% of a real regimen is what you eat and when, not cardio and lifting weights.

As for your question, I'm in the same boat. What do girls love most? Guys with a six pack, guys with guns (big biceps), guys with a big chest, guys with broad shoulders, guys with a tight butt.

Are you only trying to find the guys that meet all of the above that I just mentioned? Because there are more things to a guy than just physical stuff.

[qmusclelvoer]

Muscular girls are sexier in general in my opinion

[rthomas43]

Of course not!
I personally prefer it because I'm huge into fitness. MOST guys I know hate abs on a girl and prefer a girl with a thin stomach that isn't defined.

[Sexualchrist]

I really like abs on a girl but i can't speak for all guys.

[Sub-Mariner]

Not all guys have well defined abs so we don't expect you to also. It doesn't matter.

[CursedChico]

Flat is ok. BUt not important if there is some fat.

[Anonymous]

I personally don't find flat, defined abs attractive on a woman. A little bit of a belly is more my type.