Pregnancy, vaginal infection, stress. Ladies help me?

[Anonymous]

I don't have a gyno. And my mother is no where near open with me or listening to me aabout my health needs. I been sexually active for about 2 yrs. 2 different sex. Partners 1st one ended , i was perfectly clean. Negative pregnancy test. 2nd bf... been dating for about 6 months now. Feb 2014. March 2014 i started getting a rash from my pad i was probably allergic to it. After that , every month from March-April i was always itching around my vagina, towards but butt 1 wk prior to my period. June & July no symptoms ( we boke up ) but i was spotting for 3 days after my period. Now August 2014. We got back together had oral sex. And it became irritated again 1 wk prior to period. Now it's sept my period is usually On the 19th of each month. No period, no itching, 2 negative pregnancy test. But i do feel like im gaining a lot of abnormal weight. It feels abnormal maybe because i haven't workout out much and it seriously feel the weight gaining. Overall. Im scared. I wanna get tested maybe he infected me with something. My last bf was clean saw his results from the doc. So I don't know what's good on. Im scared. I never in my life had a yeast infection or anything. I assume that's what i have because i have them symptoms. Im always clean i always clean myself daily android properly. I don't know If any female can give some advice please

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i Know Its Been itching the Last 4 months and i really can't do another month of it coming back. Maybe it's BV. Idk. But it's annoying. How much is a regular gyno check up? & i don't want them to stick anything inside me though. Imereally scared

[-Zoe-]

Feeling scared can add more stress to you that can alter or suppress your immune system which can lead more susceptible to what you're experiencing now... Since its not clear on what you have and what its cause, I think, to end your feeling of scared, fear or worries is to visit a gynecologist and get tested... There's always a way, you just need to move or act to solve your concern... No one can conclude on what really is your experiencing, only you and your Dr. may know that better..

Based on your details presented, weight gain and itchiness is the primary concerned if I'm not mistaken.. and I think you have an idea that your weight gain is due to haven't been workout that much (yes, it could be a factor)... and for your itchiness, you said its prior to period (I think its due to alteration of pH from normal slight acidic to slight basic that makes prone to itchiness and vaginal irritation.. If its not itchy anymore after the period, then I don't think its abnormal.)... And if you think that itchiness has something to do with your partner, I hope he uses condom, and if he does use, then I don't think you should worry or be scared that much.. And again, this is just my opinion, you know yourself better and consulting your Gyne is still the best option..

[-Zoe-]

and for the cost of regular checkup, I don't have idea since it varies to where you live... On where I live, its free...

[Asker]

We have sex allwayyss with a condom. He tested blood urine everything an is clean he just went last wk. Im an emt so i besrly have lunch breaks. So from the lack of eating probably just once a day, to no workout it ruins my diet life and i gain ore than losing ( so my bf says) I don't know he is very supportive and i stress alot. It don't have a gyno and i jut overall hope i get a gyno that will make me feel safe an comfortable

[Deft_maiden]

You need to see a Gyno ASAP. Itching could be from a variety of things, yeast infection for one. If your pregnancy tests were negative then it likely you are not. Done correctly they are accurate.