Guys - Does weight really matter?

[oliviajw]

I have heard so many guys say "size doesn't matter" but then they see a girl who is a little bit heavier and call her ugly! Just tell me if size really does matter to you or not! Thanks:)

No not at all

Yes!! she has to be skinny

I'm kinda on the fence about this question

[LUVBM3]

Not really but that isn't the question to me. If I'm going to be with a woman I'd want us to complete each other. That would be the main reason and completing each other would looking after one anothe, to be be each other's high and strength when the other is low or weak.
For the record I'm in my early 40's and average, not big but not straight out the gym either. Now to my partner I commit 100% and would look after her if she needed looking after in things where my personslonality strengths complete her weakness, and or vice versa.
Here is my interpretation of that question.
How can someone that can't look after herself, something as simple as her figure and appearance have any chance of looking after me?
By feeding me until I'm round? Die of a heart attack? Cholesterol?
Unless the person is sadly ill as I have close friends that have children that just can't use up what they take in and it isn't even much, so sad and I deeply feel for these people but not for those who make a conscience choice simply not to take care of themselves, their health.
Smoking, alcohol etc falls in to the same category to me though physically running yourself in to the ground because it's hard or emotionally unstable won't work for me.
I'm sorry if no one agrees and I don't really care.
There is someone for everyone out there to share their life with and feel love whilst growing old.
I'm lucky to have that person that completes me.

[JohnScofield787]

yes it does to me. It is not the end all be all... but i get up a 4AM 6 days a week and watch what I eat 7 days a week so i can try to be healthy for me and for others that depend on me. i would prefer a woman that thinks enough of herself to do the same.

Does she have to be a stick and never have something "fun" to eat - No. However do I want her to be healthy and conscious of it as I am. That would be my preference.

But it is not the end game for me. I also need to connect with her on the total person that she is.

[Anonymous]

Of course it matters.
But that doesn't mean a guy won't date a chubby girl.

[Protriplejump86]

I mean wrapping your arms around a girls nice but bigger girls are good cuddlers soo...

[atomique]

Yes/No. Everyone has their limits. For me if you are under 182 cm the upper limit is about 107 kg

[IAmCluelessToo]

I don't want to be stuck with a hippo