Girls, what can and should I do when I feel down and upset or depressed and outnumbered about things?

[kill-switch]

Generally one big thing that has always bothered me to the point where I feel outnumbered is that most people like skirts and dresses on women and that just bums me out and makes me feel outnumbered because I feel completely different and clearly don't see why or how a skirt or dress would be attractive or appealing on a female I just think they look sloppy unfashionable and looks like the woman is strict and judgmental and has that kind of personality and right now I'm in a really bad mood because of this it makes me feel terrible and insecure about myself so me feeling this way what can I do to help myself feel better about this and even just anything that bothers me and that I'm struggling with in life I know that I naturally and automatically feel better over time because that's part of life and human nature and being alive and this world but I still want and need support and care from women on this because I had a tough child hood growing up and my life is still tough long story why and how

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I'm gonna be taken a break from GaG I just need to take a break from it because I need time to recover from how I've been feeling lately I'm better now but I still need to recover but I can say one of the main things I need to be happy is too feel the warmth and love I need and live the life I'm supposed to have and live in the world I'm supposed to live in

[Miyumi]

I personally don't really understand how women wearing dresses and skirts bothers you. I mean it's their body, they can wear the shortest pants and I could care less as long as I don't have to wear the same pants xD. You might have got some confidence issues due to having a tough life. What can you do... be confident is the easy thing to say. Ofcourse it's harder than it looks, just be proud of yourself and who you are. I don't know what your child hood was like but, you made it through so be proud of that... somehow? Your stronger than you think. Hang in there and try to make the best of life no matter what past you had, make the future a more happy memory.

Anyways to answer your question:
What you might want to do when you feel upset/depressed is think about good things in life. I don't know to what degree you're depressed but if it's really bad, then you can talk to a specialist, they will def. be able to help you through it.

I understand you want support and care from women, but that isn't everything. Personally friendship/family is more important in my opinion. They can give you support and care too.

Sorry if I somehow offended you with this post.

Hang in there and stay safe!

[kill-switch]

My girls/women go under the category family and I can't talk to anyone about how I feel because people are nothing but strict and judgmental and no one is there for me also i live with people that aren't my family they sent me to the hospital twice and both times they made me feel worse and people lie all the time about weather they can help me they can't help me all people do is make me so fuckin angry and something terrible has just happened to me not to long ago and I am so depressed and suicidal and homicidal also heartbroken I don't know how I'm gonna feel better and I can't imagine feeling better because I can't live like this any fuckin more and whoever tries to stop me from killing myself they don't help and trust me it's a long story where I come from I feel so terrible and insecure about myself everyone hates me now I don't know who you are well enough to know how you feel about me but I want to say I feel unsafe and uncomfortable living :(:::

[kill-switch]

I feel too embarrassed to be seen and I'm too afraid of people to talk to them and the people that care about me I either don't know them or they drifted away from me because we lost contact with each other I feel outnumbered and different and also insecure I just can't stand being alive people always assume the worst about me and people always mistreat me😢

[Miyumi]

That's terrible to hear... But trust me, suicide isn't gonna solve anything. If you're really that deep into trouble I'd really recommend you see as soon as possible a doctor they will be able to listen to you and help you. By the way, if it's so bad living there and you're 18 then consider moving out. I don't know the situation but leaving that envoirement sounds healthy to both you and your family. Maybe you have friends or other relatives where you can stay until you feel a bit more calm, there it might be safer and comfortable to live.

Stay safe and don't do anything reckless...

Miyumi

[kill-switch]

It's complicated about my moving out situation and since I was 17 I moved out it was actually on my 17th birthday but age has nothing to do with it how about this how about I follow you on this media and we can talk about it privately in messaging