Girls get me depressed?

[Anonymous]

If you see the difference between a man’s sexual/Emotional life vs a woman’s.

women have it much easier, Everything about a woman is beautiful from head to toe.

Everything about their body is exciting and appealing.

when we love them we love them for who they are.

on the other hand, a man looks plain and boring.

a woman would like a man based on his career, money, status etc.. I know these are important things but they never really define us.

A man honk horns, go to the moon, fight wars, they go through a lot of shit to grab the attention of a woman he loves.

I’m simply depressed, Being not attractive is a misery by it’s own.

an average looking girl would turn heads and men who deny that are delusional.

while an average or even above average man would most likely fail to grab attention.

I’m not the type that looks for attention but I need only one girl in my life that believes in me and finds me appealing and never compares me to others and judges me but that always seems far ahead.

I feel like I’m sinking when I find a girl I really like, so unreachable.

[aaron210419]

This is how men are wired, and we're told growing up to learn how to treat a lady. Yet I've never once heard anyone ever say learn how to treat a man. We're looked at like some kind of emotionless tool and are expected to provide and make women's life easier in some way. It is depressing and it doesn't get easier man, even if you had a girl finding one that loves you purely for you is damn near impossible. Chris Rock said "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are loved under the condition that they provide something". He said that in a stand up comedy routine, but it's the sad truth. A majority of women are entitled to the core and most would rate themselves a 10/10 out of pure narcissism. I wish I could tell you differently but this is the world we live in.

[chicosuave]

i gave up on them so i dont care about them anymore. nothing makes them happy so its a never ending battle. I only live my life. I play video games watch movies and i hang with my friends and not care what i bring to the table. I have a job and eat so there you go.

[Sukaaa]

I feel you all and it is sad I have a brother and live in an arab country we kinda have this idea that a guy can't cry a guy must be rich and have a high place in whatever career and woman are told to take care of themselves for men and are pressured and thought to look for what a guy have and all of that is unfair and wrong but I believe it is what is inside not being cringe but really a woman could marry a guy who is rich but treat her like crap not saying money is not important but still it is not everything and MEN are humans and humans have emotions even animals yes that's all I guess not sure what is the solution to all of this but I think everyone should start with themselves and there own way if thinking and not follow there parents believe but find there own

[Asker]

I agree

[Sukaaa]

Glad you don

[slatyb]

Get some counseling to rebuild your self-esteem. It's no easier for women.

[KrakenAttackin]

The answer is simple. Stop living for the shallow attention of females.