Is it normal for a guy to feel depressed that girls can wear revealing dresses and get all the attention they want from guys when guys can't do same?

rajveer11
Is it normal as a boy to feel jealous and depressed about the fact that girls get more attention than you? For much of my life, I have always been a normal, heterosexual boy, attracted to girls. However, at the same time I always felt severely depressed about how girls can get attention from boys just from how they look and their visual appeal, but boys hardly have options to get attention from girls the same way. I was fed up with how girls wore revealing dresses and posted hot pics and can get more guys to follow them, and I was attracted more to girls who dressed modestly and didn't get much attention.

I was very pained about the impression I got that boys have to try hard to win over girls but girls don't have to do the same to win over boys. For a long time I just simply accepted it as gender inequality and something that I have to deal with. I also thought that this boy/girl thing was some stupid gender role/stereotype that still had to be gotten over with, and I believed that there are some guys who want more attention me while there are other guys of the more common type who like more beautiful girls. However, over time my life continued to worsen, as I was not able to find any answers anywhere whatsoever for my pain, and I felt intimidated to ask anyone about it for fear of being called out. This has given me the impression as if I’m alien, which has just increased the amount of pain I’ve always been experiencing, so that’s why I have come here to speak out because I simply can’t remain silent anymore.
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1 mo
Ok I feel like I really need to clarify what I wrote, because people can't understand. I suffered years of SOCIAL EXCLUSION, ok? I know very well what it's like being ignored. I was born like that, I grew up like that. I hope you can understand how traumatic it was. Now I saw girls. I saw how girls can get attention just from how they look, while on the other hand guys mostly can't attention from girls by how they look. But I consider myself more emotional than most guys and want more attention.
1 mo
Is that not normal? To clarify further, I'm not ever thinking of cross-dressing, or changing from a guy's to girl's dress. I was always fine with wearing guys' dresses, I was always just jealous and depressed that girls got more attention than me. This is why I was more attracted to modest girls who didn't get as much attention. Sometimes I feel as if I'm transgender, but I cast that off mostly.
Is it normal for a guy to feel depressed that girls can wear revealing dresses and get all the attention they want from guys when guys can't do same?
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