Do you sometimes feel like your life is hopeless because you keep "fucking" up everything?

[xSkye]

So, since 2 months I am living on my own in a student flat because I wanted to live close to my school. Since then my life has been a rollercoaster. Everything was new I have no friends here and school hasn't been going well. first month everything was okay but I still needed to do so much stuff. Everytime I solved one problem 3 came back.

My studentflat at the moment sucks, school hasn't been going well, my health is declining (feeling down all day not wanting to do anything) and just feeling like someone is chasing me. On top of this i'm also very tight with money and my relation hasn't been doing great either because all of this.

I was wondering if some people had a similar experience before and how did you get out of this deep black hole? Because at the moment I am just feeling like im floating over.

(not sure if this is the right topic though)

[Hans222]

This sounds like the symptoms one shows when situations are overcoming you...
What I think is best to do is: try to sit back and think about solutions to as many of your worries as possible. Make a to do list for yourself, that will make you feel in control again :D
Try to make friends, having someone to chat with in difficult times relaxes you.
I hope you'll soon be feeling better :D
I changed the topic to Health & Fitness, since you're not feeling very well... that matches the topic of the question :D

[TravisG]

For me, it was me moving away from crime city to Florida. I was making more money back home but, now I'm making half than what I was making. It's harder on me but I've been setting goals and not giving up. When one shut down, I keep on pushing until another open.

[springocelot]

this entire year has felt like that for me
i've skipped boards twice this year due to anxiety and emotional problems stemming from my relationship and my financial situation is less than ideal
my health has declined as a result. lot of stress-related hair loss

i'm pretty much starting from square one and been re-evaluating a lot of things and coming up with a vision i can work towards to

[xSkye]

My goal was really simple this week. Just go to school but I couldnt even do that because I got sick from all the stress, maybe I should see a docter? I have nobody to talk to about this so this forum is perfect for now. Thanks for sharing your story

[springocelot]

no problem. this site has been helpful for some in relieving their depression

i would consider seeing a therapist if you're so stressed it's been debilitating your day-to-day activities

[apple24]

yeah pretty much my whole life!