I have become too concerned about my face and its hampering my fitness goals?

[Anonymous]

I can honestly say, i managed to change my face to a good extent over a course of a couple of years, however, i am not progressing at all ahead, since in a way i am becoming a little effeminate/ beta about it (i get way too sensitive too, like i clean shaved today and look 17 as mom said and it has me shattered as if my life is over lol, made me realize i need to stop being a whiny cunt) and not working on building muscle like i should now that i have gotten rid of the obesity. My waist size has gone from 32 to 34 and my chest from 39 to 38'' in the past one month, small changes in an apparent sense (i note on bb. com every week) but this is how degradation starts, how do i get back?

[davidpossey]

stop being a fucking bitch and work out dude you can't fucking change your face unless you do plastic surgery or something which is gonna fuck you up even more so you can't fucking change your face accept it and move on but you can fucking control how ripped you are and being in shape so focus on that

[Asker]

lol man k

[davidpossey]

aight man good luck

[aficionado]

Haha, stop being so paranoid, mate! Your face is awesome, and I'm sure your body will be, too! Don't be so hard on yourself. And you're just 20! Enjoy your life, and work on your goals. :)

[Asker]

well, we all have our ups and downs in life he he

[aficionado]

I can understand.

[Asker]

by the way, with respect to your previous question on side handles, google M100's mike chang, u'll find a youtube vid on the workout, its really intense, u probably won't be able to do more than 2-3 rounds in the first go, but in a week or so, u'll be able to do the whole thing, its really effective, used to do it before, made a big difference

[aficionado]

Thanks, will check it out!

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

I see no reason for you to be concerned about your face. But then again, I am not you, so it's hard for me to understand why you feel this way exactly. Don't worry about it, keep yourself focused in other things.

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

on other things*

[Asker]

yup, thats why i am trying to get back to working out, its just sth lingering in my mind for a month

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

Good luck!

[Asker]

thanks :) i guess everyone has these periods in their life at some point, just want to know how they get over it lol, judging by ur opinions and comments from before too, u sound very mature, intelligent and down to earth , but i am pretty certain u have/ do go through these phases too like any human

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

I am going to be honest. When you have been dealing with insecurity for a long time, it's hard to completely get over it, and sometimes you have to live with it for forever. That is why most people use other activities to distract themselves for a while.

And yeah I do go through it as well, I am human too after all 😛

[BellePepper]

You need to talk with a therapist about these feelings.

[Asker]

not that serious lol, i think every human has had a phase wherein appereance seemed impt, just want to overcome it

[BellePepper]

"it has me shattered as if my life is over"

That is not normal.

[Asker]

thats why i turned to gag instead of therapy, i get to hear the same stuff without being depressed about being broke later

[BellePepper]

You can find a therapist who works on a sliding scale

[Stefan1738]

first, clean up your eyebrows

[Asker]

lol, skinny white guy, how is ur momma's garage treating you

[Asker]

but since u mention, i do look like i have a unibrow in my cover pic, the angle i guess lol, coz i dont

[Stefan1738]

I was offering you advice, but you took it offensively. But that's okay, I'm in a good mood today.

[Asker]

no real man cleans eyebrows beyond. getting rid of a unibrow

[Stefan1738]

Your username explains a lot.

[Asker]

manscaping, jewellery, facials etc, these aren't manly at all, just advice in case u do all this

[Asker]

lol man yeah, i made a misleading username can't change it now, i am actually almost 6feet tall (5'11)

[igfunnyboi]

You look fine. Why do you worry do much? 😐