Are people with average genetics but who take care of themselves considered to have good genetics as people get older?

[Anonymous]

Now when people are young, people don't factor much when selecting mates whether that person actively maintains a healthy lifestyle. The reason being everyone metabolism is high, body can handle all the horrible toxins you are pumping into it in the form of food, alcohol, drugs etc. So at this point people tend to favor those who were born with naturally good genetics for mates while not puting too much stock in those who take care of themselves. Aka face>body.

However as we get older our metabolism slows down, our body can't handle the damage we put it through. Those who actively/consistently take care of themselves begin to differentiating from those who do not. For example, the girl who has average tier genetics but who works out, eat healthy maintains the physique she had when she was in her 20's while hotter girls who grew up with her but had poor diets and rarely exercise begin to get fat/age not as well.

Fast forward into our 30's and 40's and it really becomes apparent those who take care of themselves and those who do not. Many people start taking notice and favoring those who take care of themselves in their 30's and 40's. Your SMV (SEXUAL MARKET VALUE) has risen as they were say. If you were a girl who was a 5/10 in college where most girls were skinny, you'll look like a 8-9/10 in 30',40's demographic because so many women have let themselves go including the hot ones and are now fat/overweight.

Now, many people think oh well i can get into shape later in life if i start getting fat but that's easier said than done. Your metabolism is slowing down which means losing those pounds become harder, recovery time from exercise takes longer, you aren't accustom to the shift and know how to adapt exercise into everyday working life and therefore your going to have a harder time than someone whose been doing this since their teens or 20's. Do you think those who take care of themselves are often confuse as having good genetics when they get older?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Yes. People naturally think your genetics are top tier because most people are lazy fucks who rely on what they are born with. You start standing out and people take interest. It's this reason and most critical that guys who stay in shape as well as increase their money/status clean up shop in their 30's compared to men who let themselves go.

38 yr old doctor who makes over 200k+

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[es20490446e]

That's my case. They say I have good genetics, and I ask them:

How would you be if you exercised 6 times a week, and ate as good as a person could?

[Anonymous]

It's a combination of face, hair, body etc. Not just one.

[Anonymous]

Wow... this made me think a lot. You're so right though.

[rjroy3]

If you're comparing average genetics, but takes care of their self to good genetics that lets their health go to shit. Then yes that does happen over time. Usually not until at least mid to late 30s tho.

A girl hot in her 20s can be a physical train wreck in her 30s. While an average girl in her 20s who works out and eats right will be more so the hot girl in her 30s physically. It's all about trying.

[Bandit74]

I don't know if they are confused with having good genetics, but it probably does make them more desirable within their age demographic if they are in good shape at an older age. Its even better if they financially succesful.

It's still a consolation prize tho. Its way better to be one of the ones who could reap the benefits of being really attractive in their youth. Furthermore, if they keep themselves in good shape they will still be better than you.

[misterfit]

No, the main reason being that I know a ton of people who take good care of themselves and they age faster and look older than others. Also look at famous people that can afford surgeries and all kinds of different procedures, creams, etc... there are clear differences.

Basically what I"m getting at is that you either have good genetics or you don't. Drugs and all that stuff can ruin it but just taking care of yourself doesn't necessarily move you up the totem poll. You're face is your face no matter what.

Now you can always move your body from a 5 to a 10, which always helps!

[Idonotgivearatsass]

I don't care, don't really need to take care of myself... why, because of the genetics was born with. You know, how your grandparents and parents lives ended up, that genetic history. It's a damned good bet if your grandparents and parents lived into their 90's and the diet they ate wasn't/isn't much different than the diet you eat that you're also going to live into your 80's/90's. It's everything you do, work, hobbies, attitude, etc., etc..

[oximeter]

Genetics change with life decisions you make.

Having said this some bad genetics cannot be reverse with character.

I look 27. But I've been working out since 16

[anonman32]

if you think that people in their teens and twenties dont select partners who are healthy you are wrong.

[Asker]

They don't. Most people select based off looks in their teens which does not indicate an individual is in fact healthy.

[anonman32]

sure buddy, even when i was in my teens i would not select girls that smoked or drank a lot of alcohol or had further unhealthy lifestyles.

[Asker]

Again just because you do does not mean everyone does.

[anonman32]

i am an individual and i speak for myself. i dont care what others do.

[Asker]

"if you think that people in their teens and twenties dont select partners who are healthy you are wrong."

Implying that you are speaking on behalf for other people and think your view is the norm.

[anonman32]

do you honestly think that the majority if people will select people with bad lifestyles? i was just pointing out your generalizations.

[Asker]

Yes. Majority of people do not think long term. They look at what's most attractive in front of them now without factoring whether this person actually take their health serious. Hence why when we look at couples from when they are young to how they look now they don't age so well.

[Asker]

Example

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[anonman32]

she got fat after marriage.

[Asker]

Whether she got fat before or after marriage. Point still stands.

[anonman32]

no the point does not stand at all. this is a typical thing to do for some women to get fat after marriage, they dont have to put any effort in their appearance anymore because they have 'caught a guy'. they become unhealthy AFTER marriage not before.

[anonman32]

and besides, your shitty theory goes against biology, we always select the most fit partner in our direct environment that we can get our hands on.

[Asker]

A woman who actively maintaining a healthy lifestyle not just one who is remaining thin until a guy puts a ring on it will continue to maintain that lifestyle post marriage because its a part of living for her. The point still stands.

You do not know if she was maintaining her weight before marriage. you infer it. However, what we can see is she clearly did put on weight showing that exercising for her was not something she did frequently.

Also no it does. People pick mates who they believe have best genetics but genetics change with your enviroment and how you treat your body.

[Asker]

Humans and people in general do not pick those who are the most fit but most attractive at the time. Hence, why so many guys will date a hot girl with a real nice body now but who does not actively work out, or strive to eat properly over a girl with an average face/body who actively works out and eats healthy.

[ElissaDido]

Yeah... I guess so

[Asker]

You don't seem convinced to me.