Congratulations on your weight loss, it is always incredibly difficult to lose weight, especially 70 to 80 pounds. There are many answers to your question, the first is: because they are perceived as healthier and more feminine. Just like, why do some women like men who are tall and muscular, because that is perceived as healthy and masculine.
The second is: the things that are considered attractive to a man regarding a woman is a very unique thing that differs from man to man, sure there may be some commonalities, but overall, the needs, wants, etc will be different. For me, the things that attract me to a woman are: femininity, empathy and sensitivity, health, positive outlook on life and on other people, personality, and the care and passion that she shows to what I am saying and doing. I am not attracted to women who are (pardon my language) bitches, excessive drama, or narcissistic, and that is a huge turn off for me. Some men are only attracted to looks, and if you look like a supermodel, it does not matter how you act, some men are attracted to 50/50 looks and personality, and much more. I do not care where you lie on the one to ten scale, I just care if you are a healthy weight and appearance. I am not a fan of women with tattoos, have more than just their ears pierced, have excessive tans (If I can tell that you laid by the beach for an hour from 10 feet away, that is too much for me), who are not caring, and who are not respectful and nice to other people.
I will let you in on a secret though, I am a sucker for natural blondes, and natural redheads, I tend to ignore a lot of flaws in their personality when I am with them, something that I have gotten better at lately because I have recognized it.
I've had both. It's so much cuter to encompass a smaller girl in your arms than a larger one. It's not super sexy when it feels like you're hugging a small boulder.
Attractiveness is based on way more than your weight. Most women could lose a bit less to look better while still being fully height. We dont know if you should stay/gain/lose.
Guys have a lot of different opinions and preferences about body weight and shape. As long as you are healthy, I wouldn't worry about how others see you. I know guys who prefer skinny women with little to no curves, and I know guys who would rather have a woman who is heavier and has more curves. There's more to attraction than simply body weight, and I wouldn't be ashamed. Your body weight is your business and your responsibility to manage and maintain in a healthy manner.
fat is just a word not a personality it's based on the way u are not the way u look just be yourself and be proud boys come and go and when u find the one I hope they love u for u and not ur pant size
I am 5'11,108lbs,36-22-36, I am not "small and cute"But I never had a problem with finding a boyfriend. Believe me guys will like you in general not just because of your body.
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Congrats on the weight loss.
No you don't need to have perfectly tan skin or a flat stomach. Those are bonuses. What is an absolute need is an awesome personality and good character.
its not about beeing skinny... man maybe have the instinct to be atracted to woman that look more like child. its an evolutionary phenomenon in humans... look at where we are at now. we all look like child animals, nor hair, weak and we all have a strong immagination in comparison to other animals.
skinny isn't the right term, its more about showing health/good genetics, a bodystructure that assures a good birth and qualities of dreamlike mentality.
woman that show feminine qualities also show that they know hiw to survive in this society. woman that dont understand hie to get things, how to hande people and how to warm to people when they need to are usually more stressed and stress supresses the prodzction of many hormones, maybe also sexual ones...
Not tan skin, I like pale skin on women.
But yes, skinny girls pick up the victory here. Humans are a species where the males are larger than the females, so girls are generally supposed to small (short, thin and petite-framed) while men are supposed to be large (tall, somewhat muscular, and broad shouldered). That is just evolution and instinct.
Because a.7 waist to hip ratio looks and is healthy to a mate that wants to reproduce just as a female likes tall men with broad muscular shoulder because she wants a strong and healthy male to provide for her offspring. Keeping a good waist to hip ratio will make you live longer, just do it for yourself.
Girls of a healthy weight have always been more attractive.
Here's a test to help you understand it.
1) as women get older they usually get (thinner/fatter)?
2) as women get older they usually get (more fertile/less fertile)?
3) as you get fatter you generally become (healthier/unhealthy)?
The perfect weight is NOT models. Look at female porn stars.
Why do women find thin men more attractive than fat men? Becuase being fat isn't attractive. Do you need a flat stomach and a tan to be as attractive as your friends? Yes and no. To some guys, yes. To others, no. What are men attracted to? Its different with every man but here are some general guidelines: Not too fat, not too skinny, perky tits, nice ass, curvy hips, long hair, full lips, thick thighs, etc.
as a guy, I can't help looking at a fit/ top model girl. But for a date, I would always choose a girl I have a connection with. Beauty alone doesn't keep you warm at night
i had 3 boyfriends, and all 3 of them told me "please dont end up so skinny. i wouldn't wanna make love to bones."
so id say not all men for sure.
good body, perfect smile, and long hair and with make up..
u You've already lost the weight be very pleased and happy. I'm not into tan skin girls. I like pale skin girls and you can always work on your stomach by doing crunches
I've never been over 130 pounds so I'm not sure, but I'm sure that you are beautiful just the way you are
to me its not at all about that. i like personality
A heavy woman looks like the hippos in "Madagascar" what's sexy about that?
we dont like them fat or over weight but not skiny @lest not me ^^!
-just round and healthy filled body thats what natural cutie look like
Skinny is good.
I like all natural skin tones but generally in their untanned versions
Healthy = attractive.
Unhealthy = repulsive.
Obesity fits in the 2nd category.
The same reason females like fit guys.
Because they are more attractive.
I am attracted by Big and skinny Girls
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