What's most important to you in your significant other?

[Anonymous]

could you please rank these according to your importance

Body

Face

Loyalty

Brain

Personality

Updates

+1 y

could you guys rank these 5 things please!

[CrazyiinL0ve]

Body: Although, it could be fricken hot. It probably won't last long if he isn't naturally athletic. I mean, as we get older, we all gain unnecessary weight. Ehh, my point is, body always changes!

Face: Also changes, but not as much. It's important, because it's the face, lip, I'd be kissing, touching etc. This sounds shallow, but something that was nice to look at. This matters more to me than body though.

(Good Hygiene should have also been a choice, that's very important to me too haha)

Loyalty: A must have! The thing I don't like about the poll is that, there needs to be some combination of all choices that we look for in a partner. Loyalty, is also part of personality.

Brain: I'd enjoy having a deep, intellectual conversation, and not having to explain things all the time haha.

Personality: My ultimate must have. The guy has to have a good personality. Looks strike my attention, but personality definitely keeps my attention on that guy. Anyone I can have fun with, etc is perfect for me :)

[lusha]

I voted for personality. a good personality makes him look the most beautiful in my eyes. so those who have a good personality but arenot that much good lookin, the personality reflects its beauty.

then I would vote for brain. No one would like to be with a silly or dump person.

face and body are good enough. and as I mentioned up, if the personality is beautiful it will make the person beautiful. but a healthy body is more attractive.

and loyality. I think it has to be a must in every person. and its for sure the most important thing. but I can see it a part of the personality.

[Hughman]

Short term to get me interested: Face, Body, Non-Verbal signals of personality (ie not socially retarded or a total bitch)

To keep me: Wit/sense of humour similar to my own (which requires some intelligence to pull off), extroversion, loyalty/willpower

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Interesting to note women wanting their men to be loyal. I always considered that something guys looked for. (for I hold to the motto: women would rather have 5 minutes of an alpha male than a lifetime with a wet reag of an omega)

[longrodvonhugendong]

1) Loyalty: Who cares about anything else if she's gonna hurt you?

2) Personality: Let's be honest, girls can be pretty btchy and annoying. I need someone I can stand.

3) Face: Gotta have something to look at.

4) Brain: I'm not gonna beat around the bush. I'm I friggin genius. I need someone smart.

5) Body: As long as it resembles a female body, it's good enough.

[Mesonfielde]

I completely agree with this in every aspect.

[Asker]

Yea me too

[Asker]

Actually brain comes before face! For me

[longrodvonhugendong]

Well, if you put brain before face, you might as well date Stephen Hawking. There's gotta be some sorta physical attraction.

[longrodvonhugendong]

Oh you're a girl. Well, if you're straight, you need something distinctive about the opposite sex. I know, I know, it sounds absurd, but it is possible for girls to be smart too.

[icemaster2340]

Personality: I want to be happy when I am with her and I want to make her smile too

Loyalty: I won't want her to be cheating on me :P

Brain: I don't like to boast, but I am much smarter than average and I don't want to end up with a dumb bimbo (pardon my politically incorrect language)

Body: Obviously flat board would not be very appealing but I guess that's not really that important

Face: Last thing I would care about since any face would start to look cute with time :D

Once again, I know my language is politically incorrect, but I'm just being frank and honest :P Please keep in mind that no offense is intended

[chelseadoll]

Personality because you have to mesh well with your significant other - if the personality isn't there, you aren't going to have any mental connection.

Loyality next because I think loyality is part of one's personality, some people are loyal while others are not. I think loyality is very important in a relationship because if one isn't loyal, you won't have trust either.

Brain because in order to have conversations with any importance, your s/o will need brains.

Face because that's what you look at the majority of the time, or at least what I'm looking at. Eyes are big for me... you can really connect by looking into someones eyes so nice eyes are a bonus!

Body because yes a nice body is a plus, and fun to look at but it's not going to be the determining factor or effect a relationship once you're in the relationship. Once you're in a relationship, personality, loyalty and brains are what will change/sway the relationship.

[nobleziba]

Loyalty: an absolute must.

Personality: when I look for a girl, I go into it looking for someone I could spend all my time with, and bodies change. I want to love her personality.

Brain: I like to be able to hold intellectual discussions with a woman I'm into.

Face: this is the FIRST thing that attracts me, but in the end, not the most important.

Body: Can't lie, a good body can seal the deal, but a less-than-perfect one isn't going to break the deal either.

[Maxen92]

I would say Brain and Loyalty, because they are almost the same. But at the same time, some girls might have got the brains even though their loyalty might not be worth a single penny.

I would say: Loyalty, personality, brains, face and body.

[SociallyInept]

Well, it depends on the stages that you go through in a relationship.

At first, I need to feel attracted to him.

A nice face, a strong build are very attractive to me.

But as the relationship carries on, it relies more on compatibility, sexual chemistry, and his personality.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

1. Personality - She's got to be a person that I can enjoy at least just being around.

2. Face - Body can be worked on, everyone loves a pretty face, nice smile, pretty eyes.

3. Loyalty - While I'm not the jealous type, she still would have to love and respect me.

4. Body - Not the most important thing, but still important.

5. Brain - While brain is definitely a plus, as long as you're not Kelly Bundy then you're ok.

[emzy-89]

definitely loyalty. without loyalty you have nothing.

[Asker]

Exactly!!

[foolycooly1001]

I voted brains, because I think loyalty should not be an option. It should be required. If I have to include it, I rank them loyalty, brains, face, personality, body.

[LittleMissGriff]

Loyalty

Personality

Face

Brain

Body

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There's nothing in a relationship without trust. Loyalty is absolute.

[PrincessCandy17]

1. personality

2. loyalty

3. face

4. body

5. brain

yeah I know I'm kinda shallow but whatever :)

[Seraphine]

1- Loyalty

2- Face

3- Personality

4- Brain

5- Body

[acidpop]

I consider brain and personality to be most important, and loyalty to be part of personality.

Physical appearance honestly does not matter to me if I am attracted to the PERSON, not just the looks.

[blufrenzy93]

personality--i need someone to talk to.

loyalty

brain

face

body

[funkadelic5]

Everyone needs all of these at some level. There's no clear advantage... it's like me asking you to rank food and water in order of importance for survival.

[da5id]

In my opinion the only right answer here, moreover you can't substitute one of the other if she's hotter less brains won't help her (no it really wont) and if she's smart an ugly mug won't help her you could play the same game with fidelity/loyality etc...

[Mesonfielde]

Actually, without water, you die in 3 days, and without food, in 7 days or so.

[longrodvonhugendong]

I rank food first since I'm hypoglycemic. Who cares if I die in 3 days? I'd be comatose way before that.

[funkadelic5]

@Mesonfielde

Yes you will need water more urgently with food. Similarly I might generally be more attracted to a girl's looks then her intellect. But even as water may be more needed than food, you will still die without food, just as I can't simply be with a bird-brained bimbo no matter how drop dead gorgeous she is.

[lv4lv]

1) Loyalty

2) Personality

3) Brain

4) Face

5) Body

[human_condition]

1. Brain

2. Personality

3. Loyalty

4. Face

5. Body

[lily85462155]

1.) personality

2.) loyalty

3.) Face

4.) Body

5.) Brain

[BeautifulxDisaster]

Personality and Loyalty are strongly tied together. I voted Personality.

[Chrissy7084]

Personality, Loyalty, Body and Brain (its a tie), Face

[jessthatgirl]

well I chose E

but it's also a mixture of appeal and loyalty !

[Milton]

1. Personality

2. Loyalty

3. Face

4. Brain

5. Body

[Memoryfalls]

loyalty

personality

brain

face

body

[Asker]

I'm totally with you!!

[music-diva]

Agree 100%. loyalty is #1 for me definitely

[Kushmall]

personality and brains go together which is first

then face, loyalty, and lastly body.

[TheStrangeOne]

1.loyalty

2.personality

3.brain

4.face

5.body

[Crazycanuck]

loyalty

personallity/brain

face

body

[ilyurbella]

Personality

Loyalty

Brain

Face

Body

[star709]

personality/brain

loyalty

face

body

[thrash07]

Personality/ Brain

Loyalty

Face

Body

[CassandraJo13]

Personality

Loyalty

Face

Brain

Body

[pandabear25]

loyalty

personality

face

brain

body

[MandMandM]

Isn't loyalty part of personality?

[Asker]

Lol well, it’s so important to me so I put it as a single option :)

[stevizze]

Personality/brain, loyalty, face, then body.

[bnwsmile]

Personality

Brain

Loyalty

Body

Face

[cjl214]

Personality

loyalty

face

brain

body

[MaxAsian9]

face

personality and brain

loyalty

body

[Anonymous]

Loyalty

Personality

Brain

Face Body

[Opinion Owner]

Face then body.

[TimtheEnchanter]

1)Personality

2)Loyalty

3)Brain

4)Face

5)Body

[Anonymous]

Loyalty

Personality and Brain

Face

Body